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glatt 08-03-2012 07:27 AM

Actually, they didn't like it that you were smarter than them.

ZenGum 08-03-2012 08:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 822752)
I think the legal age in Qld is 15, and Aden went to some lengths to explain to me that they waited till they were both 15. At least they thought that much through. lol

http://www.afao.org.au/library/topic..._Australia.pdf

Quote:

Queensland: The age of consent for anal sex is 18 (s 208(1)) and 16 for any non-anal sex (s 215(1)).
Uh-ohhhh.

Well, here's you're compromise position.

"You kids can root, but NO ANAL!"


:lol:

footfootfoot 08-03-2012 02:38 PM

Yes. Envy.

Aliantha 08-03-2012 06:15 PM

Hmmm....well he'll be legal in a couple of weeks. lol M will be a few months more after that. I guess they'd better just behave themselves.

Clodfobble 08-04-2012 10:53 AM

But surely the consent age only applies to partners who are of age themselves? They wouldn't put two 15 year olds in jail...

footfootfoot 08-04-2012 10:58 AM

My envy reply was not to zengum's post. It was to Glatt's previous post.

Happy Monkey 08-04-2012 12:47 PM

Check your local laws for those "few months more", though.

Sundae 08-08-2012 10:18 AM

Upsetting me today?
EVERYTHING.

Got my new meds.
May take a while to kick in. Hope not as I hate absolutely everyone and everything and am halfway to getting drunk which I know will make me hate more but I can't cope with it all. Only thing I can hope for is no yap from my parents and fall asleep as early as possible.

Except I know alcohol interferees with medications so it is precisely the wrong thing to do so I am angry about it.

Clodfobble 08-08-2012 10:59 AM

Sundae, we love you more than the alcohol does.

DanaC 08-08-2012 11:00 AM

Don't be angry about it. Not whilst you're doing it. Start your new drive for healthy living tomorrow. You'll be starting a fresh day with your new meds having had a blow out today.

*hugs*

Summer hols suck ass when you're in the education bidness.

Sundae 08-10-2012 11:21 AM

*** Brit-centric post ***
Link to BBC release

A body has been discovered in Tia Sharp's grandmother's house.
It has yet to be identified, but given there is one 12 year old missing, and a dead body found, it's not too much of a stretch.

The 12 year old went out to buy a pair of shoes last week and never returned. Grandma's 37 year old partner was the last to see Tia when she left the house. He couldn't be 100% sure where she'd gone as he was doing the hoovering. She left without her Travelcard, mobile and apparently with very little money. I was suspicious from the start I admit.

There were unconfirmed sightings, but she wasn't identified on any CCTV footage or remembered by any bus or tram drivers in the area. Police were in fact unanle to place her at any time after leaving the house.

Poor kid. Sounds like she never did.
"Grandad" Stuart Hazell is currently missing.

(thanks for the kind words Dana & Clod, I was in a real state that night. Am slowly coming round, but am still a bit snappy. And yes - it's the hols which are exarcerbating things)

DanaC 08-10-2012 11:30 AM

Ahh shit. Poor little lass.


[eta] Gods, I wouldn't want to be her Gran right now. How awful to have brought the killer into the fold so to speak. Wouldn't be surprised if he had wooed the gran to get the granddaughter. Apparently he was at one point friends with the girl's mum.

DanaC 08-11-2012 03:47 AM

Dante's in a bad way. Think he may have had a stroke yesterday evening. Wasn't much the vet could do so advised to keep him calm and rested til morning.

Tragic sight though. No coordination, head tilted to one side, can't stand. Not sure how he is right now, but apparently calmer after some sleep.

Waiting to hear from Mum once the vet's called back.

Come on, Dan. Get better love. We're not ready to lose another.

Sundae 08-11-2012 04:36 AM

Sorry about that Dani. He was Pilau's brother wasn't he?

DanaC 08-11-2012 09:00 AM

It's over, he's gone.

Rest in Peace Dante. Pemontell Light Fantastic.

My heart's breaking all over again. Both the boys are gone now. The two brothers. And Carrot's lost his best BigDog. His mentor, friend and walking companion.

Poor Mum. It's an awful place to be.

Griff 08-11-2012 09:03 AM

I hate losing a dog. They connect with us so honestly. sorry

Sundae 08-11-2012 09:08 AM

Sorry to hear that Dani. Glad he's out of pain and distress.
My love to your Mum in such an awful time.

DanaC 08-11-2012 09:09 AM

Thanks Griff.

Undertoad 08-11-2012 09:17 AM

Sorry to hear of this Dani.

DanaC 08-11-2012 09:30 AM

Thanks guys. Means a lot.

Nearly broke down on the field earlier. Before the vet had been down to Mum's but we knew it was the end. Was walking carrot, and that's one of the places we used to meet up with Mum and Dan. Poor lad has no idea he isn't going to see him again. His bestest BigDog. He loves him so much. the idea that we won't ever meet up with Dan like that again hurts.

Trilby 08-11-2012 09:55 AM

I'm so sorry Dana.

zippyt 08-11-2012 10:37 AM

Sorry to hear this Dani

so will mum be getting a New youngling ???

DanaC 08-11-2012 10:54 AM

*shakes head* I don't think so. She's said for some time now that Dan would be her last dog. For all sorts of reasons really. She's in her late 60s and has concerns about taking on a pup who'd be with her into her 80s. She did at one point consider maybe taking on an older dog, but that means taking on all the endgame stuff without having the years leading up:P

Most of all I think she's just weary of the heartache that comes at the end. She's been through it now many times, and I think she's just not up for having her heart ripped out all over again.

Plus, she's always had dogs. Dogs or kids or both. Barring a few months, she's had that all her adult life, and they are tying. I think she wants to see what life is like without that.

Whatever she decides, she also has a stake in Carrotchops. She can be a part time gran instead of a full time mummy :p

I dunno though for sure. She's said this before on previous occasions, but that was after losing dogs in shocking ways. This time, I feel she may be decided.

Nirvana 08-11-2012 11:23 AM

I am so sorry Dani :( Its so sad to lose a fur guy :(

Pico and ME 08-11-2012 12:00 PM

Aw, thats really hard. So sorry for your Mom.

Aliantha 08-11-2012 06:20 PM

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and in other doggy news, our Sally went missing yesterday. We're hoping someone has found her and is keeping her, so we're going to put some signs up shortly.

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orthodoc 08-11-2012 06:32 PM

So, so sorry to hear this, Dana ... so hard, on so many levels, to lose a fur friend. Many hugs to you and your Mum.

And Ali ... sending my best hopes that Sally will be found safe and sound.

DanaC 08-11-2012 06:44 PM

Thanks guys. It is hard. We must love them to keep going through it.

@ Sundae: I posted a thanks to Griff just as you posted your message ;p So it looks like I thanked everybody but you. *hugs* thanks chika.

@ Ali: Crossing fingers and toes she comes home soon.

xoxoxoBruce 08-12-2012 12:06 AM

Damn it Dana, give your Mom our sincerest condolences. :(

Sundae 08-12-2012 10:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 824110)
@ Sundae: I posted a thanks to Griff just as you posted your message ;p So it looks like I thanked everybody but you. *hugs* thanks chika.

Don't worry about that! I'm off being hyper-sensitive now I promise.

Oh Ali - how horrible.
Did she have her collar on when she went missing?
Is she chipped?
I'm still not over Dylan after three years :sniff:
My most sincere wishes for a happy ending for you.

DucksNuts 08-14-2012 05:52 AM

Shit...I came in here to talk about my neighbour's kid and sex....(no, dont go there, I would NEVER!!!)....then I read that sex stuff that Ali is going through....weird.....

Anyway, I was sitting out the front on my lawn when my 15 yr old neighbour came and plonked down beside me...waffling his normal shit...and I wasnt really paying attention because I was thinking about how he was pissed (drunk) at the party I was at on Saturday night (his parents were there) and I wasnt very happy about that....anyway.

I hear "anal because she didnt want to get pregnant"...and I spat my Strongbow out my nose choking.....and asked him to repeat the story.

So, he's telling me that he's been seeing this 15 yr old girl for a little while and last weekend they had anal sex because she didnt want to get pregnant.....(in my head)...fuck, girls that age want anal sex?......and then one of her friends made some smart arse comment on facebook.

Friend of the parents tells girl's Dad and Dad finds out about anal sex Im mouth hanging open listening now..conversation on facebook how she's in a whole world of trouble.

The boy being ... if I know what - I was thinking *stupid* in my head......goes around to girl's house and talks to Dad. Admitting that they did it and why and that he hopes it wont be weird for him to be around girls house from now on W.T.F??

The reason he's telling me all this...he doesnt want to see that girl anymore and he's worried about how the Dad will react.

sorry, Im still stuck on the fact that this girl let you put it in her bum as a form of contraception

I think, if Dad didnt deck him when he turned up at the door and admitted to having sex with his Daughter, you will probably be OK not seeing her anymore.

I dont want to have this kinda shit happen in a few years.

Ali - Im glad Sally was found, did you pick her up this morning?
Well done with sex stuff, you always do the right thing and I hope I handle future scenarios with your tact!!

Dani - Im so sorry for the loss of your Mum's best buddy.

Aliantha 08-14-2012 04:43 PM

haha...that's a funny story. lol I haven't asked, so I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure Aden and M weren't having anal. I actually don't really want to know if they were, not that I have anything against it, but just that at 15? Yeah, the thought would definitely never have occurred to me. lol

I'm sure you'll cope very well with whatever your boys toss up Ducky. You're a great Mum, and obviously a wonderful neighbour. ;)

Trilby 08-14-2012 05:01 PM

I sort of want to live in Ducks neighborhood. It certainly is interesting.

And Ali - sooooooo glad you got Sally back!

DanaC 08-14-2012 05:11 PM

yey! Sally's back :) So glad.

DucksNuts 08-14-2012 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brianna (Post 824474)
I sort of want to live in Ducks neighborhood. It certainly is interesting.

And Ali - sooooooo glad you got Sally back!

Its very boganesque, Bri.

Same boy (who is my fav even though he is a shit), is in the poo for smoking 'weed'.

Now, I adore his parents, but I have issues with a lot of things they do. They openly get fall down drunk and smoke weed in front of the two sons that live with them (12 & 15 - she has 4 older kids).....hell, they made a bucket bong last time I went over for a BBQ....but they have giving the boy an ultimatum ..."give up the smoking or you are off to rehab".

I agree that needs to happen, but...seriously....hypocritrical much?

ZenGum 08-14-2012 08:02 PM

15? Queensland?

Wait a minute.

This boy's name isn't Mav is it? :eyebrow: :lol: :headshake



Seriously, folks ... there're some serious role-model issues in that household. Telling the kid not to do exactly what you're doing in front of him? Duhhhh.

Oh an as mentioned previously, the age of consent in Queensland is 16, but for anal sex it is 18.

DucksNuts 08-14-2012 09:22 PM

The age of consent for anal sex in MY household is FUCKING NEVER!!!

I notice cases of hypocritarseholeitis all the time now.

Guilty of it myself occasionally...."dont hit your brother...if you hit your brother once more, I'll clip you around the ear'.....err

My niece in law, to my Sister In Law..."T (her daughter) is not allowed to have chocolate or McDonalds"....as SHE has Chocolate for breakfast and eats McD's 3 times a week.

Aliantha 08-14-2012 09:38 PM

Mav? lol He's an angel. It's Aden that's the problem child. Already went through the dope smoking thing with him WHEN HE WAS 12!!!! Well and truly over it now though and his attitude towards dope is what I would call healthy as a parent.

Mav hadn't even kissed a girl till his now gf which is really sweet I think. I'm pretty sure Mav is so conservative (already) that he'd never even think of anal sex as something that might be fun. Aden on the other hand is likely to think about it and very likely give it a go if he could find a girl willing...which I would think would be difficult at 15, but apparently it's not if he heads up north a bit. lol

Aliantha 08-14-2012 09:39 PM

Oh, and thanks for the kind words about Sally. We're very happy to have her home. :)

DucksNuts 08-14-2012 09:42 PM

I could probably get her number......

DucksNuts 08-14-2012 09:43 PM

Hey, I went past 5000 posts.

Jeez you talk a lot of shit Ali!

Aliantha 08-14-2012 09:47 PM

haha...I wasn't the one who brought up the subject of anal sex. lol

BigV 08-15-2012 11:10 AM

"talk some shit"

"subject of anal sex"

lulz

Sundae 08-16-2012 03:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 824511)
Aden on the other hand is likely to think about it [anal sex] and very likely give it a go... which I would think would be difficult at 15, but apparently it's not if he heads up North a bit.

That's an interesting euphemsim.
I wonder if that's how Sheldon described it to his family. "I fancy heading North a bit."

Aliantha 08-16-2012 05:43 PM

Well it actually means geographically speaking. As in Going north a few hundred km's to where Ducky lives cause the chicks are more 'open'...apparently...lol

anonymous 08-23-2012 06:59 PM

I will start with fuck cancer. Learned today, shortly after the rents learned, that my dad's best friend for his whole entire life has cancer. Terminal. He will do chemo so to make him more comfortable. I know my dad and if he were in that situation I would have to be the kevorkian he counted on.

I'd rather absorb all the pain on earth than see my loved ones feeling it. This is not possible.

Meanwhile I keep thinking of growing up with this man, and his people, in our lives. Such a funny man, such a quietly sweet man. When he laughed, which was a lot with this crew, his eyes laughed.

So I raised a glass or two or 8 for a man who is almost an uncle, for his kids who are like cousins, only long since having gone to live their lives.

I hate this shit.

Clodfobble 08-23-2012 07:05 PM

Sorry, anon. :(

Aliantha 08-23-2012 07:12 PM

It's just the worst news to hear. I'm sorry about it all anon. Maybe there will be a miracle. Stranger things have happened. xx

glatt 08-23-2012 07:22 PM

Fuck cancer.

Sorry, anon.

orthodoc 08-23-2012 07:44 PM

Damn, anon, I'm sorry.

BigV 08-23-2012 11:23 PM

gah.

Cancer fucks with us, we just fuck cancer back, fucker. So sorry anonymous.

DanaC 08-25-2012 05:31 AM

*shakes head* such sadness. Sorry, Anon.

Fuck cancer.

limey 08-25-2012 06:02 AM

Fuck cancer. Sorry anon. Fuckitt.

Griff 08-25-2012 07:56 AM

fuck cancer

Sundae 08-25-2012 02:47 PM

Anon I am so sorry.
Really good family men don't happen by every day.
And I know because I have them in my family and they have been hard to match.
And I read them here and they impress me.

So much love to you and friends and family.
I wouldn't fuck cancer with a dead dick when it eats good people.

Gravdigr 08-26-2012 01:08 PM

Went through this very thing several months ago with one of Popdigr's friends. Leukemia.

Definitely sucks.

Fuck cancer.

Razzmatazz13 09-05-2012 07:50 AM

Just saw anon's post, and wanted to offer condolences. :(

Trilby 09-05-2012 12:59 PM

I'm so sorry anon.


:flower: for you

Aliantha 09-05-2012 06:24 PM

Went to the hospital yesterday. The baby's heart rate is a bit high, but they are not too concerned, but sent me home with the warning to come straight back if I don't feel any movement for more than a couple of hours. Also, she's in breech position, so that's not great either.

God I just wish this was over. :(

Razzmatazz13 09-05-2012 09:15 PM

How much longer Ali? Are you having a c-section because of her being topsy turvy?


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