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thrillhouse 03-23-2006 11:43 PM

as long as i get to keep my dog. i'm good to go.

marichiko 03-24-2006 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Hubris Boy
<p>Celibacy. Without a doubt. It's not nearly as much fun, sure, but it's a lot cheaper and a LOT less complicated.<br>
Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...</p>

Oh, Hubris Boy! You're back! Post something nasty on my computer screen, baybee! :rattat: :shocking: :speechls: :eyeball: :eyeball: :bolt:

wolf 03-24-2006 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by thrillhouse
as long as i get to keep my dog. i'm good to go.

If you have hot, meaningless sex with your dog, he'll still respect you in the morning, because you have opposable thumbs and can operate the can opener.

Gromitspapa 03-24-2006 12:40 AM

Opposable thumbs help make for hot, meaningless sex, though...

Kagen4o4 03-24-2006 02:42 AM

yeah! this one time I.....oh wait....I better not say that

thrillhouse 03-24-2006 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Gromitspapa
Opposable thumbs help make for hot, meaningless sex, though...

how YOU doin?

yesman065 03-24-2006 07:38 AM

I'm always in for hot sex, but the meaningless part just kills it for me - I feel like I need to have that connection with someone I'm intimate with and as some of you know from my prior posts the sex just for sex thing didn't really work out so well for me.

glatt 03-24-2006 09:33 AM

I've never had hot meaningless sex. Never really wanted to. But who knows, maybe I would have liked it if I tried it.

On the other hand, hot meaningful sex is awesome. :love:

Does celibacy mean no self-pleasuring? Celibacy would be the clear choice for me as long as that was still allowed. But if not, then I'm not sure what I would choose. Neither one is desirable to me.

Brett's Honey 03-24-2006 12:20 PM

Well, I see it's almost a tie so far, so no real answer for thrillhouse yet, but I cast a vote for the sex. It is good for you. When I went quite a while - almost 2 years between relationships I did have a "fuckbuddy", for good, hot, but comfortable sex. I think it may have helped keep me from jumping into a relationship that I really didn't want or need.

Elspode 03-24-2006 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by marichiko
I tried doing the hot, meaningless sex thing and ended up falling in love with the ax murderer.

Umm...there's a flaw in this. If you fell in love, then you ascribed meaning to the sex, therefore, it was no longer meaningless, and became outside of the terms of this particular poll.

I'm not saying that I wouldn't have done the same thing, I'm just pointing out that, once you fall in love, the sex is no longer meaningless, and then you're *really* screwed.

barefoot serpent 03-24-2006 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by marichiko
love with the ax murderer.

It's better to have loved and lost (an arm), than to have never loved at all.:p

thrillhouse 03-24-2006 02:35 PM

bleak baby. . . . real bleak :eek: http://msnbc.msn.com/id/11981858/

jojo 03-24-2006 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by yesman065
I'm always in for hot sex, but the meaningless part just kills it for me - I feel like I need to have that connection with someone I'm intimate with and as some of you know from my prior posts the sex just for sex thing didn't really work out so well for me.

did you smile and feel exuberant the next day? or did you feel uneasy?

for all of us women out there-how can you ever have meaningless sex? i don't fit the needy or over-nurturing stereotypes that are sometimes associated with women and i don't think many of the women here do either, but i don't think i would be capable of "meaningless" sex. i would invariably feel a connection, or at the very least imagine that he does. while basking in the glow, i know i would take some part of it to heart. and no matter how little emotional connection i felt with the guy, i WOULD be hurt if i thought it was completely meaningless to him.
Brett's Honey, are you sure it was meaningless for your "fbuddy" (can't get myself to write it!:blush: ) cuz if it was meaningless to you, but not your partner, then it was possibly...hurtful?
methinks me overthinks everything!

Kagen4o4 03-24-2006 05:35 PM

who here wants some meaningless sex?

Elspode 03-25-2006 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by thrillhouse
bleak baby. . . . real bleak :eek: http://msnbc.msn.com/id/11981858/

So these women stop taking their antidepressants (which curtail libido and response in many women), then become constantly aroused? Egad.


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