You do realise it was meant to be joke??? Surely you're not that stupid. Still, nice to know where you stand, so thanks for that.

She's married to my older boys father. This bullshit has been going on for a while now. She blocks access between me and Kal, and the kids and Kal. She is mental. This all started because i wanted to talk to him about the kids going to visit in a month or so. They recently moved and i didnt have their new details so messaged her on fb. My words were, 'i need to talk to kal about the boys. Can you ask him to call me please.'. Her response was 'FUCK YOU'. That is not a joke. I will post the whole convo if you want.

Oh! Well I totally fell for it. You were kidding? Oh jeez do I feel like a boob. You got me good. I owe ya one.

Oh....yoooooouuuuuu!

I have posted about this situation before. Specifically when the kids were over there at easter time and she decided to stop me from talking to them from their home comp, so the kids racked up massive mobile bills.

Honestly, her behaviour is seriously crazy.

The tread isnt a joke. The title was.

I was responding to flint. Sorry jim.

And honestly, i am not really alright. Not much that can be done about it though. I cqn get a court order specifying she cant block access, but shes not the sort of person who would honour it, and the police have better things to do than enforce those sorts of orders. Kal needs to step up, but i dont think he even knows half of whats going on.

No no don't. I was just being a shit like I do. I didn't make the connection. Don't air this laundry. I'm sorry you have to deal with a crazy. ... what do you call the relationship between you and the ex's new wife/husband/ S.O.?.....

Anyway, yeah. Sorry theres a nut bar in your kids life. Only advice I have for real is not to deal with her on her level. Be the adult. vent here, but don't mix the two worlds. Mav has an acct here right?

Yeah he does, but shes been abusing them too, so he knows whats going on. He doesnt say anything to her, but aden fights back. This is how low the woman is. She told aden she never wants to see him again. Shes his stepmother. He's still a kid (in most ways). What sort of person behaves that way?

Anyway, the kids are going back there, but they will be staying with their aunt and cousins. They will be in wellington. Their father in Auckland unless he decides to make the drive and spend time with them.

Well I'm still willing to do the mouse thing if you need me to.

Haha...she'd probably use it for her wicked brew.

I'm sorry the psycho is in your life. I don't have any advice. The only observation I have it that you can't control her. You can only control how you behave interacting with her. So make sure to behave in a way that makes you and your family proud.

And Jim, WTF, man. How are you posting from 3:45am to 5am? It's not like you are in a European time zone. Those are ungodly hours.

Actually, i was wondering the same thing about him posting at that time of night. Insomnia?

Yeah. That couch got me. Sat down to watch the highlights of the game that I missed because I was at work until 11:34 last night. ...I swear this couch was made by a narcoleptic evil genius. ... so I passed out somewhere between 12:30 and 1:00, woke up at 3:30 with my back teeth floating and a headache.

If I go back to sleep with a headache, it doubles. I'm in at 1pm today, so I killed some time while the advil took effect.

My col sanders tie finally got here yesterday, so I tried the costume on too. It's perfect. Well. ... one thing. The cane I borrowed is a brown standard type of cane. He used a black pistol grip type.

Oh, and my goatee. ... but I'm considering trimming it to match and then after, whacking it all down to stubble and going back to the full face beard from there.

I have to deal with a psycho ex all the time. It has driven me to the point I only check my email once a week, keep my cellphone turned off, and don't have any social media accounts. I know it is childish, but after awhile the words hurt and our child suffers too

Then you need something that will really cheer you up, like a ménage à trois with Aliantha and her ex's new wife.