I love, love, love sex, but I must choose celibacy. Never really could thoroughly enjoy meaningless sex because my head was always in it --- regardless of my intentions. I do find that after being hopelessly single for some time now, I pass on sex only opportunities. My rationalization is a pointless fling will cause me to stray from the path of finding that right one. As I spent most of my youth in a relationship that didn't ultimately come to fruition, I worry about wasting more time. I'm not getting any younger. Besides, I haven't yet hit my sexual peak. Maybe I just need to give in and buy a pair of tits.

I've never had meaningless sex, only meaningless makeout sessions. I thought about engaging in such activity when I broke up with my then-fiance last year, but then I became obsessed with an old friend of mine back home. And now we're getting married next year. I don't think I missed anything. :)

No. Absolutely, positively, unequivocally, no. :headshake
If it takes plastic tits to get 'em......you don't want 'em.

I know --- you're right. Just losing my patience.

No, but I sure think I have.

Married?

Good god, no wonder it's been so cold! :) Hell, she done froze over *G*

I think we need to talk Mr. Sycamore *G*

Reading my blog reveals all. ;)

Next thing you know... he's a breeder!

I don't see you wandering past mine all that often either *G*

Seriously, hit me up on Messenger when you can, I'd like to touch base.

FYI: as of 11:30 PST, hot meaningless sex is beating out celibacy (for those of you keeping score *wink*)

Hawt (but meaningless) sex WINS!!!
 

Celibacy 47.62%
Hot Meaningless Sex 52.38%

*cartwheels*

I'll throw my 2 cents behind Hot Meaningless Sex. "Hot" being the key word.

As a guy the tendancy would be to think Hot and Meaningless as the way to go but to be honest I've never been like that and the need to make a connection is still essential in my mind. Maybe occaisionally some HMS is good but long term rekon you'd feel cold and empty. Having said that Celibacy - I don't think so. Let get a balance here!!

I agree, sharpness. The exception being hot meaningless sex with a friend your comfortable with and are sure nobody's getting hurt. ;)

Oh... and welcome to the Cellar.

Thanks Bruce
 

Thanks Bruce

celibacy for me. Been doing this for decades and i feel more and more free the longer this continues.