I have many female friends and have for years. They have insightful and different perspectives on issues than I have. I value their input! Its a wonderful asset to have and they enrich my life a great deal. I have had no desire to sleep with any of them, nor they as far a I know. Even when my wife and I seperated there was no attempt nor suggestion of anything sexual. Once a man can get past his own view of women as nothing more than a sexual object, he can begin to realize they too have other thoughts, emotions and desires aside from those of the flesh. Its amazing to me to think that in this day and age, that there are still men who view women as nothing more than sexual beings. That is so lame.

bmw: you are a sad pathetic person. truly. Most of my "guy friends" I've had since before I ever met my b/f. Some from K-garten even. I have never had any kind of sexual tension, crushes that amounted to nothing, and that was it. I have my guy friends from work and school, and that is mainly where I hang out with them. My boyfriend has the freedom to hang out with other women, and I've encouraged it. He needs to have other friends besides me. I trust him, and he trusts me. That is how it should be. And for some reason I don't doubt that all of the problems you've had befriending women has been your fault.

Isn't that just the sweetest thing, you and your B/F are so together and large minded, you both should start your own "understanding the sexes" course at your community college. Hey, if you say so.

One thing though, you don't know men as well as I do, or maybe you just think you do. Why is it that we are surounded by popular culture that supports my points of view and all you high minded, self-proclaim socially advanced people, and champions of the "world in therory" keep yaking that yak?:rolleyes:

Unless one of you looks likes this
http://www.kickingdonkeyproducts.com/images/Tex.jpg
There will always be sexual tension, thats just our biology.

BM, yet again, when faced with the truth or a "reality" that doesn't fit into your warped view of the world you have nothing to say other than a weak (really weak) insult. No matter how thinly veiled.

Again, are you 5 years old?
You pussy whipped momas-boy.

You keep saying "pussy whipped" like it's a bad thing...:D

ya know what I like about you, bm? Your total dedication to the enlightenment of us all despite all evidence to the contrary!

Also, I like how you are IN NO WAY a woman-hating potential rapist, like those sad fuckers featured on LAW&ORDER: SVU. (actually, I did think I saw you--never mind!)

You, bm, are a pioneer! Don't let any bee-yotch stand in your (nazi-saluting, jack-booted) way!

Heil!

Over the top?

at least he rounds the slice of life we've got going here, like it or not there are more than a few BM's out there

Like you.

To get ot from the misogynist.

Do you thing women create more of the problem than men, playing the "if he's jealous he is showing that he loves me" game? Then again, I guess men do it too... I can only speak from my experience.

I have had more than one get truly angry when I refused to play this sick little game. I would ask them to stop, then ignore it, then leave them.
I do not play games, especially that one. If they want other men, they can have them... but I will not be used as a toy merely to elevate someone's ego.
A relationship is a partnership and friendship, not a contest.

Quote:
Originally Posted by yesman065
BM, yet again, when faced with the truth or a "reality" that doesn't fit into your warped view of the world you have nothing to say other than a weak (really weak) insult. No matter how thinly veiled.

Response:
Originally Posted by BM (pun intended)
Again, are you 5 years old?
You pussy whipped momas-boy.

Need I say more? Oh, OK just for fun - Yeah I'm pussy whipped - in the face, on my c*ck, and anywhere else I/she wants it. Yeah I'm pussy-whipped at least 3x a week and lovin it! Oh, whats that? You can't relate. That right you are an asshole and all you do all day is spew shit. Take it somewhere else. I've lost all patience with you and have no desire to attempt to expand your minute mind. Your ass is so effing tight you could probably shit diamonds if fed coal. If I told you what I really think I'd probably get kicked off here. Oh I like the picture of your GF - the donkey. Guess that tells us a little more about your sexual preference. Then again as you said "birds of a feather. . ." Makes sense - since you are certainly a Jack-ass.

You are so wrong its sad and funny at the same time. Should I laugh or cry?