Oh man...

From what you've said, this does not sound like a woman who needs to be reproducing just now.

Sorry, man. This must hurt like hell.

I'm sorry, lookout. At least you heard through the grapevine and not because she came to you asking for help/emotional support/money/more divorce concessions...

Is she naming you as the father? Is there even a possibility that she could? (yes, I could read back over the prior 30 pages and do some math on my own)

Don't admit paternity until there is a confirmatory test. In some jurisdictions, even when DNA testing shows that the named father on the birth certificate is not the father, that man remains financially responsible for the child.

In some jurisfictions, being married to the woman is de facto paternity even if there is no name on the certificate, even if later tests prove it is not the husband's. Do you know who the father supposedly is?

i am definitely not the father. (if this is true) the math would be off by more than 6 weeks. i would assume that the father is the "friend" who isn't a boyfriend. but he has been conspicuously absent for several weeks now.

i can't come out and ask her about it yet, because the person who told me really shouldn't have opened their mouth... but i'm not going to betray her trust, especially considering i may need her insider's info sometime in the future.

Should have gone to Don Corleone, straight away. :(

Think there's a chance she's not really pregnant? Wouldn't that be great?

shit

snakes DO breed !!

your poor son, he will be so confused by this, as if he isnt going through enough right now.

i guess in a way though lookout; this is kind of a tie breaker for you.. not that everything else hasnt been.. but this is it. no turning back now; for either of you.

OMG Lookout - that totally sux! Talk to your lawyer, if you haven't already, and see what you can do to protect you & lil lookout legally and financially. This "woman" is absolutely crazy! I am so sorry.

Oh man... that is awful. I have been following this from the beginning, but I just never could bring myself to post. After all, I have never been married or had kids so it is hard for me to understand. But I can see how that would hurt and make things really difficult. For the sake of you and lil lookout, I hope this isn't true. But if it is, I am so sorry for you two and I wish you all the best. Many good vibes are coming your way from here in Kansas. :(

Lookout - long time no hear/here??? Whats goin on?

I second that....been wondering here too.....hope everything's going well for you......