lookout123 |
04-24-2009 01:39 PM |
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Anyone, though, who continues to make excuses for the uber rich, and why they shouldn't pay more taxes, or why they deserve to be paid 500x the average worker, is a classist in my eyes.
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Somewhere in our bickering I have expressed myself poorly if you think I am making excuses for anyone or believe someone deserves to earn a bajizillion dollars. My main point is that you spend all your energy on the rich and why they don't deserve what they have. I don't really care what they have and I'm not a big fan of the idea of deserving anything anyway. Lots of people deserve to be covered in rainbows and puppy dog kisses but are struck down by cancer. Others only deserve to cry in pain as their colon cancer and flesh eating bacteria race to see which will kill them but they get a bunch of money and a gold watch. That's life and it is what it is.
My problem with your approach is you spend so much time blaming the evil rich guy that you seem to lose sight of what is really hurting the poor. It isn't just a lack of dollars that hurts them. Instead of focusing on taking money from one to give to another, focus on helping those without to get for themselves. You know that whole "give a man a fish and feed him for a day" thing? I'm a big believer in that.
I probably sound narcissistic because I keep bringing up my own life, but that is the only real experience I have lived for myself so I know it to be true. I'm a fairly intelligent guy, but far from the smartest you'll meet. I grew up in a lower income factory family and now I'm middle class white collar. No one gave me anything to lift me from one category to the next and nothing about my character changed by getting a few more dollars. I saw my dad bust his ass for the ever shrinking carrot of a pension. While I respect the way my dad did it I also knew that life was not a viable option for my generation. I decided I needed a college education so I went into the military to pay for it. When I got out I worked multiple jobs and took out loans to finish school. After school I moved from career to career in my quest to gain experience and earn more money. In all honesty I enjoyed none of my jobs but they were necessary to move in the direction I wanted to go. Now I own my company in a fairly profitable industry. I happen to be very good at what I do so I'm well compensated but the truth is I don't actually enjoy what I'm doing now either. I would much rather be a school teacher and soccer coach BUT I had to weigh the options and I decided earning more money in a career I tolerate is more beneficial to my family than earning a teacher's wage in a career I'd love. It is a decision to sacrifice something in exchange for something I value - a life of comfort for my family.
That is what it all comes to for me - decisions and sacrifice. A couple of guys I went to school with I am just in awe of. One of them is a nationally recognized leader in a field he created and is a regular guest to the white house and featured in magazines. He chose to sacrifice a high income to follow a cause he believes in. It just so happens he became quite well known for doing that.
There are other guys I went to school with who are strangely in dead end jobs hovering along the edges of the lower end of working class bitching because they can't catch a break. The most talented guy I know makes $9 an hour and is angry at the world but refuses to accept responsibility for the life he lives. He has been offered jobs as a chef at high end restaurants. He has been asked to join a well known rock band when they needed a bassist but he declined. He had the opportunity to purchase a profitable business with no money out of pocket but said no. He refuses to live anywhere other than where he currently lives even though it is a dying area with no prospect for recovery. He chooses to stay and earn $9 an hour rather than sacrifice his desired location. In my mind he has exactly ZERO right to bitch about being broke. It is his choice.
While that is an extreme example it is the same for nearly everyone. The guy working as the night stocker at a grocery store is not a slave to the store, he has the ability to gain education and experiences and move up into different careers, but he has to decide that is what he wants to do. He has to have a goal. He won't go straight from stocker to CEO but there are no impossible to overcome roadblocks between those two jobs.
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