Wow. She only just got in on this deal and is way on top of it.

wolf, WE might be the late comers.

and just when you thought it was safe to go back in the cellar......another wrinkle........

you had his emails translated?!?!?!?!?!


never meet me in person.

Stacey,
I read his correspondence in Russian from "a lot of his girldfriens".
There ARE NOT a girlfriends,they are just a female friends.That's all, trust me.

justme, i know what i want. i want to put all of this behind me and move on and learn how to forgive and just be happy. i needed to get those letters translated first, before i could do that. i wanted to make sure i wasn't making a mistake. i think he loves me, and i also think he can be foolish and immature. we are both going to different therapists for our own issues. his issue is honesty. he knows that i won't take any more lies. now, if he lies again, our marriage will be over. but if he makes an effort and is honest with me from now on, i think we have a future together. that is the direction i'm going in.

I'm sorry, I've lost track.:blush: Was that a flip or a flop?

I don't think you have such a long future together if he can find out what you did. Something unforgivable.:(

If you love him....

one more thing, okay, two....1)sorry to piss you off again, lumberjim.
2) i have to go to bed because i have to wake up in 4 1/2 hours. justme, you can always leave me a private message here, at the cellar, or if you want, call me on wednesday.

Jeez, stacey ... unforgiveable? You didn't have revenge sex with an ex, did you?

Ok,I'll write you cellar-mail.
Good night (or good morning?:))

my last response: he knows that i come here and tell everyone our business. he has even tried to respond, but some people here were mean to him...he knows i read his e-mail, and i told him i was having some of the letters translated. he knows i don't trust him, and he says he doesn't care if i read his e-mail. he doesn't even write back to people anymore. i don't want to play detective on him anymore, i just wanted to make sure that i wasn't making a mistake. i don't want to make a lifelong habit of reading his mail, checking on him...i will get over that with time. it's just that my trust was recently broken...but anyways, i tell him everything. he already knows about these posts.
goodnight!

Ok,ok...tomorrow.

Outlook not so sunny today?

Hmmm, worried he will find out it's her. She must know him and visa versa. Hmmmm.

Stop fucking around :D

By the way, I liked your forum.

:cool:

I wasn't mean, I was impatient. Sometimes when I'm impatient, i salivate a little more. Maybe some of that got on his soul. If so, I'm sorry. Arsen, over here, our souls positively BATHE in the stuff, you should jump back in.