Hey Bri...keep us posted, ok? Thinking about you!

thx :)

Good luck Bri. Let us know how you get on.

ditto

1 -- jeeze, Brianna, good luck. It really does exist, the good luck that is, having recently experienced some of this very flavor.

2 -- in a much less ominous but still very upsetting vein, *this* pisses me off.

Care to guess what this previously encircled?

A bicycle?

A 1972 Husqvarna motorcycle?

a monster?


(and thanks, all, for the good vibes)

bald, balder and cueball? :D

hahaha free at last.....

(hope it went OK, Bri....)

Cock?

S123 wins.

SonofV's bicycle.

Now, no wheels. Walking to school, walking everywhere. Goddammit. Right out of the yard. I'm pissed. And they had to freakin carry it away, because I noticed this weekend the tire was flat. Why steal a kid's bicycle? Hmm?

Nope, do have a 1973 Honda CR350 though.

Is that the cafe racer?

Is this it?

http://www.midamericaauctions.com/im...350Replica.JPG

Neg fu.

Enduro model. Knobby tires, high fenders and exhaust, *plus* turn signals.

Neg fu?

Shit Bri - Good luck luv.

I don't know where I acquired that idiom. It means no.

My wife is going to a weekend festival without me (by my choice) wherein it is likely that she'll have quite the carnal good time. I have a single date on Sunday. For some reason, this seems to juxtapose rather feebly.

Okay, I'm not actually *upset*...more perplexed, I guess.

I was sort of hoping that it was something on the order of ... This cable and lock secured three members of Greenpeace to a giant sequoia shortly before they lost their lives in an industrial chainsawing accident ...

Sorry to hear about SonOfV's ride.

Elspode, your lifestyle, in this regard, is so different from mine, that, if you posted in a completely unfamiliar alphabet, I wouldn't be any more distant from your experience. I wonder how many others might feel the same.

I don't "get" the whole thing, but I do know the morass of feelings about feeling left out, concern about decisions once made, that sort of thing.

Phonies!

Why do people pretend to be who they're not? What do they suppose they're gaining? I mean, to hate yourself SO much that you can't live without an alter ego, can't live without seeing how many people you can fool? Pretty sad. I feel sorry for them.

With my myriad of faults, I am who I am, wherever I am. I guess that means something.

Someone here or IRL?

They're everywhere!:tinfoil:

:lol:

Ugh. Perhaps if you got a nipple pierced at the same time, it would be worthwhile?

Damnit. I've moved from the "Happy" thread to this one. Sunday night date cancelled. The wife's out at a giant Pagan lustfest, and my one chance at action has gone bye-bye. Not happy.

I'm upset. My daughter's third grade teacher (she's older now, not at that school anymore) has just been charged with having child porn on his school computer. :mad: Plus having surfed she-male sites on same. He also surfed porn sites on library computers, using his library card. :eyebrow: (Fortunately for his students, this guy is obviously not the sharpest tool in the shed.)

This guy had the images on his monitor at school??!! So what was his mind on while teaching and looking at his students (including my daughter)? Not likely the math lesson. :mad2:

How do we defend our kids against sexual predator teachers? Most of them, at least recently, seem to be women (doesn't make me feel better, since I have three sons), and then there are the guys like this one. Few to none of them seem to have previous criminal backgrounds, so background checks don't pick up their 'proclivities'.

My daughter says she feels weird that she was in the same room with him. I'm weirded out and disgusted by what was likely going through his mind, even if it wasn't specifically about my child.

I don't know that I have a point here. At the moment I'm just pissed off.

Fuck, I am so overwhelmed at the moment. My fiance's business has been going through a big transition, and I've been doing what I can to help, especially as emotional support...but just right now I'm having a tough time keeping it together. Ick.

I'm not upset, but...I'm just incredibly sore. I haven't been working out like I should recently. I started back up yesterday--60 min. of activity each day. Motherfuck, do I hurt! Did I mention that I'm also trying to stay away from OTC pain relievers, because I feel like I've over-medicated on them in the past 5 years? I'm only going to take some ibuprofen if the pain is too much.

Wife now gone on weeklong trip w/beau. Meanwhile, my most torrid correspondent has hit maximum stress level in her life and ceased all extramarital frolic (although she did come over tonight and drink beer, eat ganja cookies, and watch TV - which was surprisingly good, thanks to the cookies - and just hang out.), causing me explore other options. No, not *those* options, I a flaming heterosexual. Anyway, not entirely happy about this.

I do have a date set up for Friday night, though...so things could be worse.

I have a cold and I'm cranky.


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sorry you didn't get any spodeman. Hope Friday is a gooder.

The lack of companionship is starting to wear on me as it does every once and a while...wish all of my (ex)friends hadn't gone off to college to become drunken backstabbing ho's...

Edit: Also it's one of the nights where I can really feel the distance between boyfriend and I.

aww

It'll turn around again razz.

I know...just gets to me some days.

Thanks though, hope your cold clears up soon. :)

Ohh 'spode, a weeklong trip. I can imagine that is difficult. Getting lucky vibes your way on Friday.

Syc - why are you in pain? I obviously havent been around long enough to know.

Sky - I am on week 4 on the flu here and its driving me spare.

I'm cranky because I am a cranky ole tart these days.

Probably cause you're not getting laid.

I have BOB and myself :)

If BOB is the name of your vibrator, that is hilarious because that is the name my friend uses for hers!!! (yes, my friend. I don't have a name for mine ;))

Thanks. I plan to stop coughing by the end of the week!

Yeah, Razz some days are down days so you gotta have some up days!!
You'll have to get into a new crowd? Club or something?


man...4 week flu? I am a fricken vitamin and herb guru.
I say take some b-12 complex to cut it short. Alot of people say vit. C but it
just makes me thirsty in a pill form so lots of juice and other fluids is tolerated better.

and yer not cranky...not THAT cranky

Can someone tell me if their husband leaves them to fall asleep on the couch alone after dressing up for him in lingerie? Every time? I woke up crying this morning because of my husband's repeated lack of interest.......waking up on the couch shivering in your lingerie is kind of humiliating. Then he called me mentally ill ("more of my manic shit"- to be exact) when he saw that I was crying.

This should probably go in the relationship thread....but this is upsetting me today. Again.

Am I insane to be that upset over it? Why does he do that every time?
"Nice outfit, goodnight".
Does anyone else here do that to their wife?

There guys....now you have enough ammunition forever.

How can a doctor diagnosis one of the variations of hyperthyroidism?

Initial diagnosis usually simply requires a physical examination for the following:

* Enlarged thyroid gland
* Rapid heart beat (tachycardia) or heart palpitations
* Smooth, velvety skin
* Tremor of the fingertips
* For Graves' disease, eyes and skin as described in Part 1

Other symptoms are:

* Fatigue
* Sweaty palms
* Weight loss
* Fine brittle hair
* Restlessness
* Depression
* Increased appetite
* Changes in sex drive
* Muscle weakness, especially in the upper arms and thighs
* Shortened attention span
* Heat intolerance
* Increased sweating
* Nervousness and irritability
* Restless sleep or insomnia
* Erratic behavior
* For women, irregular menstrual cycle and reduced menstrual flow
* Infertility, recurrent miscarriage
* Increased frequency of bowel movements

that's cold-blooded. it should also be under the thread of WTF? sounds like he's one of those that "it's no biggie" whether you have sex or not or anything else for that matter. not insane, you have every right to be pissed.

WHAT a STUPID FUCKER !!!!!!

Or should I say NON-FUCKER !!!

I understand that BigV....but I know for a fact that he is sexually motivated and still you know..... Just umm...not with me.

I knew I would sound like an asshole for having a husband that has something wrong with his neck and I still insist on sexual satisfaction. But if we are really going to talk about this embarassing stuff that I brought up and shouldn't finish the thought on: he does it with himself by his self all the time and does not touch me. Not only that.....he's been pointing out that fact. I'm not sure why in the hell he's doing that either but ok. He is not depressed or have a lack of sexual desire. Which is why I tried to dress up and be overtly attractive for him in the first place...you know over and over again. I thought well- maybe he's doing it by himself all the time because I haven't been saucy. Then like an idiot....I dress up again and get left on the couch. This is just so pathetic. I have to quit doing that.
I wasn't trying to say he has a lack of sexual desire. Because he doesn't.

Jester is actually right on target. He does act like it's not a big deal either way. It's as if he is trying to point out that I am not attractive. But I know I am. Sometimes I feel humiliated and don't feel attractive....but I know I am. He is pulling a head game and using sex to do it. How long can this go on? It's not recent or a symptom of a health issue...he is doing it intentionally. Why would he pick sex as a controlling mechanism? Why does he feel like his wife is a slut for having sex with him? Because you know, this is what he's starting to sound like and act like.
Nice outfit....whatever....slut. Are people higher minded that jack off and refuse and ignore the sexual advances of their wives? Ok I don't get why. I'll admit it. If I knew why he kept doing this the problem would be solved by now. I keep forgetting and then remembering why I should stop doing that after I wake up shivering and crying.

You know.....I can't believe I just broadcasted all that to everyone over the internet....but it's sticking.

My momma never said there would be days like this.

Ditto what Zip said.

If it really does happen often, somethings up. Is his work stressful? Health issues? Is the rest of your relationship working? *shrug* Everybodies different, does a different approach work? Anyway, I'm sorry for your troubles.

I just remembered your husbands deal on the cancer thread. This could just be the wrong time, but health is on the list.

Griff- please read my post #465. I think you accidently skipped it because we posted at the same time....


You know what? Nevermind. No one needs to read/hear this crap...

I just read your other post. I'm way over my head on this. I have no idea where to point you. sorry g

Cicero, surely you've been around the Cellar long enough to know that we'll listen if you need to vent - at the very least. There's such a wide mix of people here that someone may come up with helpful suggestion.
I wish that someone were me, but I'm afraid not this time. Your posts about your husband's behaviour chilled me to the marrow. It You may be right - perhaps he is using sex and your desire to be desireable to him in a power play game to control you. But if he's ill with cancer, maybe that's the only thing he thinks he can control right now?
Can you sit and talk to him about it? Could you both get to counselling?
Hugs, anyway.

This is something that you should talk to him about. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with him, and how you deal with things as they come up, but talking is really the best thing you can do right now.

Ask him why he is doing it, and figure out a solution together.

May he just needs a hand !!! ;) ;) ;)

Just kidding , talk will help .

C – If I remember correctly, I believe you stated that he asked you for a Divorce, in the Relationship Thread? Maybe he still wants it.

He could have fetishes, he doesn’t know how to tell you about.

Or he could be gay and doesn’t know how to tell you that either.

Just random thoughts. I hope things do work out for you though.

Cicero that's a horrible thing to have to deal with. No you aren't crazy to be upset by it.

Yea- I started to talk about it with him this morning. How embarassing....of course it's my fault.

He may be feeling confused about his feelings (or ratherhis lack of desire) and is normalising it in his own mind rather than dealing with it. What the reason might be for his lack of desire is a whole other story.

BOB is the universal term for Battery Operated Boyfriend ;)

Cicero - sorry to hear about this. I think you have every right to be upset.

Why is it your fault? what did the conversation reveal?

Well, one blessing about how I live my dating life is that there are possibilities, and then there are *certainties*. Friday is a certainty, as is tomorrow night, which just was cemented today. In fact, I have been holding both of these longtime friends/soon to be lovers at bay due to the carrying on with the other gal these past few months.

I know it doesn't seem like it, but I'm not really a slut. Yeah, its not perfectly great, this out of town for a week with the boyfriend thing. Perhaps when I'm drunker later on tonight I'll get on gabbly and spew my guts about my Sunday night fuckfest experience (preview: it was bad).

Like ohhhh you dirty boy bad? or bad bad?