I have to work today, on Sunday. Will miss my nieces and the rest of my family...whose love would come in very handy today.

Eh, I volunteered for our state association's yearly event to help people fill out their FAFSA, at my old place of employment. If my best friend weren't program organizer, I might have skirted my responsibility.

You're doing a good deed and just may enjoy yourself. :cool:

me three *sigh*

Aw, shawnee, I'm sorry that you seem so down recently. I hope you see an upward turn soon :)

Thanks guys.

@ Griff: I did enjoy myself. As much as I can't stand humans, I'm good at what I do and people loved me and were very appreciative of all our efforts. ;)

@ monster: thanks hon. This too shall pass. Perhaps I'm having a mid-life crisis? I'm getting all self-examiny. I don't like it much.

I'm not going to cry on VD threads anymore!

Just an update, I got home and he's not here, but he didn't take any of his stuff with him either. I hope he's planning to stay at his sister's house tonight.

My note was thrown off to the sink, and the pen was in the cat dish. And I'm trying to read these things and figure out if he got that I meant it.

With the help of my support here, I feel strong about holding my ground.

This too shall pass...

You might consider changing the locks.

He doesn't have a key. That's one thing I "never got around to."

So, if he does come here later what do I do? Tell him to take his (probably) drunk ass elsewhere? I don't know if I can do that. For the record one of us always takes the couch...so that's not an issue.

Every car door I hear...

Bag his stuff and put it in the front yard/on the sidewalk.

Yeah...so he tried to come home tonight..I told him it was a no go.

He blamed me for everything...I told him he had to go.

He threatened my life...I told him I'm not afraid of him


He left...not without telling me how much I suck. Not a problem I know I don't.

:) You make me proud. :)

I'm proud of myself. I did it. I'm not sad I feel elevated.

:)

As well you should, you're in charge of your life, and you win.:cheerldr:

Yay. I win.

You rock!