Picking a lipstick color
 

I wasn't allowed to wear makeup when I was in highschool. In college, I never had the time. As a young engineer, nobody wore makeup...

So I never learned. I wear chapstick on most days. Sometimes, I break out the Burt's Bees. But I never figured out how to pick a good lipstick color. Occasionally, I'll go out and buy something, but I invariably end up hating it. Too orange. Too purple. Too red. Too blah.

So to all the beauties out there, how do you go about picking a color that'll work with your coloration, style and clothing? I have medium-brown skin, slightly more towards the yellow than the red. Black hair (with a few greys!) I usually wear solids, not patterns, in deeper colors.

Then, how do you apply it? Keep it from becoming all pucker-y? How do you keep it from disappearing as soon as you have your first sip or bite of food? And what can you do to mask that gawdawful 'lipstick' smell?

I know, I'm pathetic. :neutral:

hello

Even though I am very pale I have a yellow undertone. I cannot wear anything but nude,light brown,bronze or coral colors and even gold.

Light browns can have muted rosy or coral tones too.

If you are like me anything else just comes off as too harsh.

I do not apply it too often so I don't have any clue about application. I think S.G. can wear her lips nicely. Maybe she can help.

I use cherry flavored chap stick lately.

Don't the better department stores have sales clerks, on the makeup counter, that are trained to teach you that... while selling you the expensive shit? Once you have the base knowledge, you can find cheaper outlets.

I second what Bruce said. Specifically, go to the Bobbi Brown counter. Bobbi Brown is all about finding a lipstick that matches your natural lip color, which enhances rather than choosing some funky orange or brown. Let the nice ladies spend 1/2 matching your color and teach you how to apply it. Buy a nice lipstick (about $22). Then, you can take that lipstick with you to the drugstore, and choose similar colors for much cheaper, if you wish.

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More often than not they are not trained. They are just a store clerk and will put on you what they THINK looks good.

If they don't have a cosmetology degree they can just hand over the goods so you can try them yourself.

I would not try or buy passion pink # 66 because they are told to push its sale.

If you go to a counter pie be assertive in trying the colors you want.

There are many shades of corals and browns that are not funky.

She doesn't know what she wants, that's why she has to go to an upscale department store with a trained pro. Don't you have them out there?

Yes but trained? really? What upscale store do you have that has trained cosmetologists? Neiman Marcus?

Only in Washington and Cali over here.

Ya, what Bruce said, go to Nordstrom, look at the makeup chicks, pick the one that looks the best to you, and ask her to hook you up.
Or, if you want to spend money, go to a fancy day spa and have the same thing done.

Or skip it. I only wear make up to weddings. If you don't have to, why bother?

You're right, Jinx -- most of the time, I won't bother. It's exactly for those weddings and 'special' occasions that I'd like to have something picked out. Not gonna waste it on the cow orkers. ;)

Good suggestions, everyone. I think I'll give Nordie's a try. There's one in our local maul.

I disagree Skysidhe. My local Bobbi Brown salespeople at Dillards seemed well trained in their line. I don't know if they were licensed cosmetologists, but they knew their line well enough to help me pick up a lipstick that matches my skin color.

To reiterate: Ask for help, and look for a lipstick that matches your natural lip color. Sometimes there are several close ones, and in several formulations (creamier, glossier, etc.). And remember, in the end, it's your decision. You don't have to be pressured into choosing something you don't like, regardless of what the salespeople tell you.

You don't have to choose Bobbi Brown. But I think if you choose a good department store, and look at the saleswomen (or men) there, and choose one that has expertly applied makeup and seems knowledgeable, and ask specifically for help for that one thing, i.e., "I need help choosing a lipstick that matches my natural lip color, and a tutorial on applying it" you will find what you need.

I went to Nordstrom when I was 18 for a makeover. Valentines day. I have blue eyes and at the time dark blond hair. I am sure I left with passion pink lipstick or some other garish color.

I am sure my boyfriend appreciated the person I was when I met him better.

I'm just saying use the counter people at your discretion.

I am sure Dillard's, Bloomingdale's, and others use licensed beauticians. I just happen to live in hickville.

I can answer all of your questions! They may not be all the right ones for you, but it'd be a place to start...

We have similar coloring, so medium to dark 'mauves' may work well for you. You might want to try a couple different intensities to see what looks the best with your skin tone.

I like to apply directly from the tube, but use my finger to spread it around...then blot once with a tissue to set it. L'oreal is a good brand that will stay on for a while, although it does smell pretty lipsticky. The blotting helps, as does a little Dr. Pepper lip gloss applied about mid-morning.

I agree with Jinx and basically with what everyone says. Ask advice on choosing a right color, try it and see if you like. All you need is a few colors to fit the few occassions that you would wear lipstick. I only use a few lipgloss colors for those few special occassions. I use strawberry flavored chapstick everyday and that suits me just fine. :D Oh yeah, at night I use carmex so it would soften my lips so I can exfoliate them in the morning.

The secret to getting it to stay on is Lipcote. I've only ever seen it in the UK, though. paint it on over your lipstick, wait a minute or so for it to dry and you're good to go. For the entire day.

http://www.lipcote.com/

Ohhhhhhh.....cool, me likey...:D What I'm wondering is why are the sealant glosses in colors when it's used to seal in your favorite lip color?

I don't use or understand makeup. Never wanted to. My hen-friends keep pushing me, but my belief is that makeup represents a lie, and I don't wish to present myself to the world based on a lie. And yes, hair coloring is makeup, too.

I like to wear it occasionally (like once a year maybe full make up and eyeliner and mascara only perhaps twice), just to look different. But I never do the whole base and slap thing. I always take it on holiday and never wear it! Sis wore it the whole time, even at the waterpark, and she has the better complexion. I prefer to spend my time on the interwebs in the morning :lol:

you know though, I wear it to "shock/suprise", but it does piss me off a little when people say "oh how pretty/beautiful" I look with my make-up on. Like I'm a complete heifer without it. "Different" would be a little more tactful or even "gorgeous" or "sexy" -in the same way that a slinky black dress can be sexier than a pair of holed sweatpants with the same bod underneath both.... but hey, maybe I only wear make-up when I'm alreasdy feeling low on the self-confidence so I'm more tetchy then.

Speaking as a guy, I don't really care what kind of lipstick a woman wears, although maybe there is some some subliminal aspect. I guess I do notice extreme colors like black or bright red.

Still, back when I was dating, the best kind of lipstick was the kind that ended up on my :blush:.

I had an ugly lady in my office the other day with some seriously heinous red lipstick on. matched nothing else on her....

this color red:
http://after5detroit.com/a5/images/s...d_lipstick.jpg

but she was unattractive in general, and didn't appear to have any other makeup on. and she wasn't wearing a red dress...like you would have to with that color...

it was disturbing

chuckled out loud

Avon has nice stuff, usually has samples, and if you hate the color the rep will return it and give your money back/get you a new one.

Re application... I like the two step lippys, won't kiss off type ones... But the matt part can be drying, so you have to keep applying the gloss.

The other method I figured out when was young was to apply a light layer of lippy... Then rub some light moisturiser into your lips... This kinda soaks the colour in. Follow up with another coat of lipstick or a gloss... You'll have colour that lasts all day or night.

For colour... I stick to the tone of my natural lip colour...nothing to bright or unnatural.

Try Lipcote. It rocks.

So, is Lipcote like a lipgloss? Meaning it colors your lips? Or is it just a non-color sealant? Or it comes in both ways? :p:

Have you considered Dior "Sensation Coral" or "Champagne Blush"? Those shades leap to mind when I look at your pic in your profile. Be careful, you don't want to draw too much attention from your gorgeous eyes
;)

Re: lipcote... Is there a way to buy it in the US? As monnie noted, it seems to be a UK-only product. Not found(!) on google shopping, Amazon, drugstore.com, etc. I'd hate to get myself dependent on some impossible-to-procure toiletry.

Flo reminds me of this playboy character:

http://images.darkhorse.com/covers/300/14/14745.jpg

nsfw

Black Honey - Clinique.

Ooh -- me like! I'll have to search it out.

dang! i struck out again with my attempt at flirting. sighhhh

Ooooh, black honey would be pretty on Pie. I was thinking a sort of blushy shimmery gloss. Nothing too drastic.