poll: group sex
 

i remember arguing with someone recently about the existence of real live orgies. i cant remember who, but i think they were aus......show yourself.....

so i am wondering.....am i just missing all the action, or does it not really happen...really.

this may not be the best demographic to survey, but since you are all so cooperative, and honest......;), ;) I'm gonna ask anyway.

When do we get to start guessing who choose what options? Obviously Tomas hasn't seen this one yet, or we could chalk up at least one "yes, I frequently attend orgies".

I know this is "every guy's fantasy" but honestly, I don't know if I would be up for the task, and if so whether I would even enjoy it over the voice in my head screaming "What the FUCK! You're in a threesome! What do you do now genius? Which one do you fuck? Come on, this isn't Penthouse! This is a dream and it's about to become a logistical nightmare! You really fucked yourself this time buddy."

"How do you know you're not ready to date, Perth?"

Because I spend my time thinking up shit like that.

I chose option 1. LJ, why did you make this one multiple choice? Technically you could choose more than one without conflicting, but each level up pretty much guarantees you've been involved in the lesser options.

yes

Perth, that's assuming you were lucky enough to get into a threesome with two women. What if it were a question of sharing the one woman (who, for the sake of argument, let's say specifically was into the threesome experience and wouldn't want either of you individually) while studiously avoiding the other guy, eh?

You mean ignoring? :)

Mannnn this is one of those threads I WANT to post on, but my better judgement says..

Dagney, don't do that!

Someone needs to gag my judgement *WEG*

when i was 16, my best friend and i used to have sex on the same bed with our boyfriends all the time, but her and i never messed around, nor did we share boyfriends (although her man DID feel me up and called me the next day to tell me about it, but she didn't believe me...)

and this is sad...:when i was 15 i was a little slut. don't know why, i was just stupid and easy. (i'm not like that anymore :)) so anyway, i was hanging out with this guy and i drank 2- 40 ouces and i smoked a BUNCH of weed and ended up sleeping with two guys at the same time.
i felt like a slut the next day. somehow word got out around school and i developed a bad reputation-with the girls (i guess a good one with the guys, because they all seemed to like me...)
at some point i figured out that when you let a guy bang you right away, they have no respect for you and don't want to see you again. it seems so simple and common sense to me now, but back then i didn't get it.

I went to a conservative boys catholic school, but I am straight and I have no sisters who might have helped make introductions. I almost didn't even have a conversation with a girl in my teenage years, I didn't kiss anyone or loose my virginity until I was 21, both things happened on the same day.

I often listen to peoples tales of teenage sexploits with much regret, and find it ironic that most people tell them regretfully!

Reminds me of an add (an add for what I can't remember) that used to be on UK tv, the camera zooms in on an old guy in a wheelchair and a caption introduces him as a former poet laurate or nobel prize winner and then the voice of a narrator asks him if he has any regrets from his long life and the old guy replies "yes I wish I had more sex"

Ah well no more sex for me now I guess, I'm married :rolleyes:

"What the FUCK! You're in a threesome! What do you do now genius? Which one do you fuck? Come on, this isn't Penthouse! This is a dream and it's about to become a logistical nightmare! You really fucked yourself this time buddy."

lol. I have nearly had a threesome with two guys (everything but) and they seemed to love it (we didn't carry on because my best mate came in - ah the exhilaration of trying to 'clear up' in about 3 seconds before she walked in the door). It made me think though, how does the guy feel about the other guy? I didn't feel uncomfortable, because I was in control, but I imagine there must be status issues going on with the guys, and with a guy and two girls, he must feel under enormous pressure to be a sex god and satisfy them both. Would this pressure undermine the whole experience? For those who have had group sex, was it as good as the fantasy? Maybe there are some fantasies that should stay that way?

Where's Frank when we need him?

"I'd like to have sex with two women at the same time, so that when I'm done they'll have someone to talk to." (from memory, it's in the cookie file somewhere)

It's far easier, I believe, to get involved with things like that when you're younger - not only because you're more likely to have the physical attractiveness factor working for you, but I remember just being far less concerned about everything in general when I was that age (early 20s). I think somebody who is younger is less likely to worry about the possible consequences or implications of group sex, and just do it because it sounds like fun.

On the other hand, with life experience often comes a better sense of proportion and perspective, and some people no doubt begin shedding their sexual hangups as they get older and want to experience something like that before it's too late. Really, everybody's different, I guess...some people 'loosen up' as they get older, and others go the other way.

My one-time threesome happened five or six years ago, when I was in my mid-40s, and involved me with a couple. I guess like most real-life experiences, it didn't exactly live up to the fantasy in all aspects, but it was fun.

It really is one of those stereotypes that spring from truth, I think, that men - not every man, obviously, but men generally - tend to take sex far less 'seriously' than most women do. While I'm sure that there are women who are every bit as sexually uninhibited as any man, right here on this board (and by all means, contact me if you're ever in the Phoenix area :cool: ), I don't think that's the norm. I remember hitting puberty at 12 or so, and wondering why people didn't just go around having sex all the time; I guess I've learned and matured somewhat in the intervening 38 years...oh, bullshit, no I haven't...who am I kidding?

heh..

well.. uh.. suffice to say that in Kansas sometimes there isn't much to do besides get drunk and have deviant sex.. atleast when I was younger.. there was (and to the best of my knowledge still is.. although it's been a while since I've seen/talked to any of these people) a group of people who work in the downtown area who routinely engage in 'sex parties' whereas I discounted this for a while.. until one night after drinking too much and flirting with apparently one of them.. I was invited to said party.. and against my better judgement (it's hard to say NO to a beautiful woman who is..well....touching you in all the right places.. so off I went.. and well... it was interesting to say the least.. there were alot of people.. and lots of 'party favours' and then well.. suffice to say the next day I didn't feel the way I expected to... no 'wow I stuck my &*^% in 5 different women last night.. how cool is that?' feeling.. more like I had compromised myself and my basic belief system or just kind of 'dirty' (honestly I'm glad I did it, I got to do what most men fantasize about.. but it wasn't really satisfying).. heh.. maybe I am a lesbian trapped in a mans body.. NO NO don't get me wrong on that.. I like having a penis and I like being male.. I just tend to think I'm too emotional on some things.. maybe I ought not have said this.. oh well

Hmm...I picked the first option.

Not much else I can say. Never had the opportunity. I can't say I have strong feelings about it either way.

I do wonder, however, what a guy *does* with 2 women. Maybe the women are expected to *do* with each other, while the guy sort of half-assed participates...

I guess i could understand an orgy a little better, because there is at least a chance for equal representation between genders. For some reason that seems more fair with regard to the emotional aspect of it. I dunno, though.

Anyway, this is a hilarious thread. I hope it gets more responses.

not a bad problem to have, imo. there are always toys. logistically, a girl,girl, boy threesome would work best if the girls were " friendly" with each other......a boy, boy, girl would be interesting too as long as you could trust the other guy not to try anything untoward. I agree with case....a 4some or more would be more fun and probably last a lot longer, too.

Oh yesss I remember that quote.. an all time Cellar Classic(tm)!

You say that like there's something wrong with the voyeurism....

Nothing wrong with it...I just think the guy has to do a little bit of work if he gets 2 women together. You know, be a little grateful for the honor. :)

I found that both were true.......I had my first threesome in my 20's, both way's....me and a buddy double teamed his girlfriend once and while in college a chick I dated, we were screwing in her room in her sorority house....her roommate came in and just stripped and joined us.

As I got into my 30's I hooked back up with a girl I dated in high school, we lost touch after she went into the navy and I went to college. Well I guess in the Navy she got a taste of female 'love' and was BI for a while.

We've been dating again for about 5 years and while her BI tendancies have gone down some, we have had some GREAT threesomes.....I would say about a dozen in the past three years..

And although NOT swingers we have attended a few parties and joined in some group stuff......I wouldn't say it was a full blown orgy, if you didn't want to participate, you didn't, so not everyone was fucking, but at any given time, there were at least three couples doing something......close to an orgy I guess....

It's all cool though, you only go around once, why not!!! :doit:


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With all of this said.....
 

What is you favorite sexual position???

Guys: Do you like going down on your women?? Would you rather have sex or a BJ???

Women: Do you like giving a BJ, or is is something you tolorate?? What do women think about Anal sex???


Just curious.....Had my fiance and a good friend of here's get into the whole 'dirty girl' talk over the weekend......who give's a BJ, why women do it but don't like it......how some women like it from behind and some hate it......just figured I would ask for my own knowledge...

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When I was 19 I was boy-scout chief and we went to an international scout-camp in France. In the evening after the boys and girls are gone to sleep, normally chiefs come together to discuss problems and life and normally have one or two glasses (or more). Well I was asked if I wanted to join in an "orgy". But I didn't because my sister has been asked too (she didn't either) and actually I was afraid of what could happen...

I think a foursome wherein all parties were bi - or at least bi-curious, as the personal ads say - would be the most fun. A lot of straight, bi, and even lesbian women are fascinated and/or turned on by seeing two guys doing...whatever...probably not to the extent that men like watching women together, but it's nevertheless true, women in all three above-mentioned categories have told me.

I'm curious whether anyone else has had the experience of having a long-time spouse or partner with whom fantasies of threesomes and perhaps even group sex were discussed, especially during sex, but have actually done nothing remotely like that in the real world...in other words, it's all stimulating talk, but nothing else. And if so, how you would feel if they made a serious suggestion that the two of you make your fantasies come true.

But you see, you have matured enough to realize you haven't outgrown fun.;)

Two guys and a girl, works, because girls have so many interesting places to concentrate on at any given moment.

One night I had a wonderful time with 5 beautiful women. Wish they could have been there to enjoy it.:haha:

dated a girl who was bi and she was very close with her 2 roommates. I'm glad it happened because I can say been there done that. But physically, it is just a little too much pressure. Trying to stay in the game while watching the one you are working on have a little fun on her own... Well, adrenaline rushing stress might be a good way to say it.

Re: With all of this said.....
 

just wanted to see if i can upload this.. heh.. been on my mind

Re: With all of this said.....
 

BJ's:
I love giving them. The power, the pleasure (providing it's nice and clean), the feel of it in your mouth, feeling it get harder and harder, mmm I love it, especially when they can't take it any more and pin you down and fuck you afterwards.

Anal:
I used to like it a lot more than I do now. It can't be too big, if you know what I mean, or it just aint happening, too painful. But if it's average size it can be quite nice, very dirty, I went out with a guy for about a month and he was obsessive about anal, that's pretty much all we did, and I loved it, probably because it turned him on so much.

Fav position:
Any, seriously, but if I had to choose, it would be me on top, facing away from the guy, and then I can either squat and go for it or lower myself back so he can reach and touch me and watch at the same time.


PS. What a brilliant thread! Lets keep it going!

I predict that before too long, <b>Catwoman</b>'s post will have spread far and wide beyond the cozy confines of the Cellar.

Hmmm....favourite position?.....Doggy....Blowjobs? Dont like giving blowjobs but always feel good afterwards like I did something for my man! So kind of like and dislike really. Anal? nope never tried. I imagine it would be waaay too painful. Its the sort of thing that sits well in my fantasies but which I dont intend to actually try:P That of course is the beauty of fantasy sex *smiles*you get to try stuff out in your head.

Sex is one of those things I always had a few minor problems with reallly. I am one of those many women for whom it is often inexplicably painful. Consequently I grew to be a little conservative over the years in terms of what I will/would try. When I was a strip of a girl (18) I was yet to discover/selfimpose those limitations and would probably have tried anal had the opportunity arisen then;p

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Funny thing about a BJ, most guys never think about having the captian clean...My wife always seems to give it a little lookover before she starts, now I understand why....TRUE STORY!! About a year ago a friend of mine got married, so of course we threw a VERY crude bachelor party, the stage 'talent' didn't care what got stuck were......No sex from us mind you, but they had plenty of 'toys' on hand to give us a show.......

WELL we were WASTED!! My buddies house is only a few minutes away from the scene of the cirme and he is ALL charged up from the show....(I was so drunk I couldn't have gotten it up if money was involved )
:eek:

So he calls one of his booty call chicks, a girl he hadn't seen in about three months, well she come over and as I drift in and out of a drunken haze I hear her yell....'GOD when is the last time you washed that thing'!!!!!! you ain't putting that in any part of me, condom or not!!!! I was ROLLING!!!!

I guess even at our age (when we should know these things) you gotta make sure to wash the captain behind the ears.....that was TOO funny.....

As to anal, my wife says the same thing, she enjoys it greatly (we do it MAYBE twice a month or so..) but she always said, any bigger and NO WAY, sometimes average is good :thumb:


As far as positions......We have just gotten into her on top facing away from me, besides doggie, which she loves for the pounding I can give, she loves the new position, because she can just ram herself up and down on me (and of course the other little area I can tease, although we haven;t tried anal that way YET)and she says she can control when she has an orgasm better that way, some hand action I think :p

So hey, cool, perverted thread.....love it


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Re: Re: Re: With all of this said.....
 

I figured you would like it, given what I recently discovered about you, phillybilly......or is it John Lookbill?



http://www.thesmokinggun.com/graphic...14045vice1.jpg

NO...it's phillybilly......
 

although that may have been the badge of my former profession!:thumb:


Like I say, or now I'm saying, thier is a little pervert in all of us....which is what makes the world go around....


My Wife says guys talk about three things when together, War-Sports & Meat.....I told her meat should be replaced by Porn!


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A good friend of mine went to Bryn Mawr College, which she described as hedonism central; three-or-mores were common, with or without men involved.

The closest I ever came to a full-on threesome involved two Bryn Mawr-ites; a dull evening ended up turning into a three-way makeout session, with the ladies experimenting a bit, and I was used as a visual aid (so to speak) by the more experienced of the two, instructing the novice in how best to perform a certain act. The novice's enthusiasm helped make up for her lack of prior practice. Had the one's parents not been downstairs, it might've progressed further than that, but it didn't.

Steve-O of the Jackass crew had a great rationale for threesomes when he was on Stern recently with Pontius. "You know how when you get a girl, the first thing you do afterwards is call a bud? If he's there and you're sharing her, it saves a phone call."

So to conclude, either there is a lot of exaggeration going on or this group sex thing is happening quite often for people..

.... but not me :confused:

Reminds me of what happened to me when I went on a French exchange at age 16 (I should send this in to geek stories ) soon after I arrived my exchange partner was explaining to me in a mix of French and English how he "made love" to his girlfriend..I argued with him for 20 minutes that he was making a mistake in his English, he should have said "kissed" as he was only 16 and couldn't possibly be making love yet..finally it dawned on me that he did in fact make love to his girlfriend and that she was hot...I felt small :(

They must have though I was such a nerd and this was before they caught me pissing in the bidet

To quote Chef from South Park, "There's a time and a place for that sort of thing, and it's called college."

Or maybe those that have no stories to tell are not posting...

Could be that some of us just don't grope and tell.

Best non porn movie about threesomes is "Threesome"....

we could always make some up! ;)

I love being a deviant.

I'm part of a triad. (often participate in group sex)

(though unfortunately, it's not the most stable relationship I've ever been in :( )

This one time, at Band Camp...

though unfortunately, it's not the most stable relationship I've ever been in

...you don't say...

don't stop!

continue please, make it one with you and 3 chicks, please :D

It's been a while since I saw American Pie, and I didn't see the sequels... that's all I can remember.

I /do/ say. :p
Triads can work just fine - but like any relationship, all parties have to actually put some effort into making it work. This case, it ain't happening.

Um, please excuse my ignorance, but what, by definition, is a triad?

a three way relationship. roseanne was in one for a time....and i think Nina Hartley is in a permanent one.....although she's a porn star

elf,

in your triad, is it 2 girls or guys? I imagine it would be more contentious with 2 guys......thoughts?

Case - In my definition a triad is a steady relationship between three people rather than the standard couple. . . in my case, it's two females and one male. (my husband and our 'girlfriend')

The thing about triads is the fact that usually it starts as a couple and then a third person joins in. I've been married for eleven years, but we've only had our girlfriend around for about a year and a half. So there's balance issues that aren't found in 'standard' relationships. I don't know a lot of people in this sort of situation, so I don't know if male/male/female relationships are very different, but I've really found that a triad works pretty much the same as any relationship, only with more variables.

. . all in all, it's interesting and can be a helluva ride.

do you guys normally all have sex at the same time, or is there turn taking?

do you all sleep in the same bed at night?

Elf, does this woman live with you? If so, have your menstrual cycles synchronized?

Yeah, what about OnyxCougar's?? It wasn't bad either :blush:

Anyways, the way this thread is going, forget the whale penis... we can start vying for Google positioning (pardon the pun) for "doggy style"!

From a guy's (at least this guy's) perspective, doggy-style intercourse is definitely better in every way - the visual, the way your hands are left free to touch, caress and squeeze, and especially the intensity and duration of the orgasm. It also puts the woman in a good position to touch herself at the same time that you're inside her, if she wants to. I've told my wife that the only way it could get better for me is if she were going down on another woman while we were doing it that way, and she agrees.

I really love going down on a woman - the only drawback to doing too much of it before intercourse is that sometimes things get too wet as a result and friction (and pleasure) are reduced a bit.

I understand that I'm probably in the minority of men here in that I'm to some extent openly bisexual, so I don't expect all the other guys to identify with this, but...being the 'active' partner in oral sex is virtually the only thing I have ever wanted to do with another guy. Anal sex, whether as 'top' or 'bottom' has zero appeal for me...I'm just very turned on by the idea of going down on another man. According to those (like the writer John Rechy) in a position to know, this is what most 'straight' customers of male prostitutes want to do, as well. The act has a certain fascination for a lot of men who (like myself) are otherwise only attracted to women.

Wow godwulf very informative! I love doggy too because you can get sooo deep... is it really true that you get a better orgasm from it? Most guys love it, now I know why!

Guys seem to love it when I get really wet after going down on me, but I've always been told I'm seriously tight so maybe the wetness just helps things out a bit..!

I am curious about two guys together, it is kind of a turn on, and I love watching a man play with himself, you can see how he does it, what he likes, and its so dirty if he shoots all over you afterwards.

Elf - sounds fascinating - do you ever get jealous? Do you think your relationship would be as satisfying without the 'girlfriend'? I have never properly slept with another woman, what's it like?

Geez man who let all the pervs in? ;-)

Fascinating threads but way TMI. And it could use a few pictures for perspective.

Too sexy for this handle eh blue?

Well, we could look at the poll. We no nay nevers are way ahead.

LOL, yeah...have you seen my picture? I'm godlike. ;-)

No I haven't, where can I find it?You can see my pic on the mobile phone mast thread.



*Ha ha - and you were so turned on before that, I had to go and spoil it

Not exactly... ahead of any one particular category, yes. But as I type this the "never" category has exactly 50% of the vote (it was less yesterday) as compared to all the various individual permutations.

I think it must feel so much better that way because you don't have the physical distraction of trying to prop or hold yourself up in any way, and also (and this may be a bit selfish) you're pretty much in total control of the rhythm and speed, so you can adjust those things to make it feel better for you, especially at the very end.

That's what my wife say's
 

My wife say's two of the same things you do....

How much deeper I can get when I'm behind her......she just goes nuts when we do it that way, which is often......also the best when she's in the mood for some backdoor action.....like I said before, we do that maybe twice a month.

She also LOVES when I go down on her!! She get's absolutely soaked, especially when she guides me, you know tells me how she would like me to do it, info ALL guys need.....

She does have one 'friend' she still sees (well WE see) maybe every two months and old friend of her's comes over and we either get loaded up leagally :drunk:
OR
Sometimes not so leagally:joint:

And we have some good perverted fun....the best is me on my back, my wife sitting on the captain and her friend on my face....IT'S GREAT!!!

My wife also likes (as you also said) to watch me jerkoff, not to finish, but as a part of foreplay...I LOVE watching a women masturbate, so I guess it goes hand-in-hand.
My wife was out of work about six months ago, her conpmay down sized and with her spare time she would make me some nice video's of her alone with her magic box of toys and one even had our neighbor in it, which shocked me because our neighbor seemed so straight laced...well straight.....I was out of town for a conference and the neighbors husband was out of town, he drives a truck......so they got loaded and made me a nice movie :thumb:

She says that being with a women, although I certainly do please her (I HOPE :eek: ) being with a women is so different, because women are softer, tend to take more time then us guys do and so on.......so I guess that is why she still likes it.....cool with me..


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