Celebacy or Hot Meaningless Sex
 

please discuss. i need voices outside of my head for perspective.

somethin' has gotta give. i can't even spell celibacy. at first, it looked like celery. i thought, okay. posted my thread/poll. then, i realized. . . not okay. just to clarify. . . this thread is not about being vegetarian.

If my choices are celibacy or hot, meaningless sex, I'm going with the sex. Sex is good for you, good for your brain, good for your body and good for your mood. It's positively engergizing! :doit:

I'll take celibacy. I tried doing the hot, meaningless sex thing and ended up falling in love with the ax murderer. BLECH! Next time around, I want to fall for a man's brain, not his balls. But that's just my own sadder but wiser experience. :headshake

ladies, i appreciate both points of view. not only appreciate, but i feel exactely the way you both do.

that's the dilemma. :whtblk:

i would guess that after a few encounters, the sex would become much less hot if there was no meaning. as humans we need connection, not just physically but emotionally. but on the other hand, lack of human touch is dangerous emotionally, too. so there you have it: i don't know.:neutral:

ok, i've thought about it some more, go for the celibacy because you don't feel dirty afterwords and you don't have to hide that goofy smile all day!:D

I like goofy smiles.:blush:

I couldn't vote. I was torn. Why not have both? :doit:

hot meaningless sex. i have friends to have meaningful relationships with without sex.
if i wasnt having sex the only thing i would be able to think about would be having hot sex whether it was meaningful or not.

:blush: was that flirting a little with me? i changed my mind again SEX SEX -- I MEANT TO SAY SEX!:biggrinlo:

If it's definitely hot meaningless sex, then I vote for the sex. But to me, meaningless sex has almost (note I said almost) always been the exact opposite of hot.

ye gads boy!. . . . am i to be neutered as penance for posting here? ;)

well...yes.
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