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Conveying the full extent of one's meaning in the best way possible: Communication]
I’ve long since realized that part of what turns people off so much to how I communicate is that I can only do the implied, the subtextual, the synecdoche, when I do abstract, emotional, expressionistic things. I can only communicate the real and factual and immediate through complex, multi-clausal, lawyeristic, layered phraseology that insists on accuracy above humanity. I always feel the need to express an entire (parenthetically or clausally interrupted for clarification [possibly multiple times]) train of thought for fear of feeling somehow stupid or crazy or weird for worst of all misconstrued. It’s the perfect way to write an academic paper or draft legislation or defend a client but it’s a shitty way to maintain interpersonal relationships.
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Word.
Well, paragraph. :) fear deliberately misconstrued / trust to interpret fairly / trust other person in good faith? word thinking mind, emotion feeling mind, different parts of brain. word thinking can distract and take over. way of protecting/hiding feeling mind. need words for communication. clear emotional vocabulary. to feel and to think about the feeling at once, and still feel. practise, I guess. |
However many you use to narrow things down, words only have an approximate meaning and you can never be sure that someone else will under a word (or a phrase, or a paragraph, or a tome!) the same way you do. Trust me on this one - words are my business!
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That's true limey. In the end, we just have to trust our friends to pick the lock of our meaning. I'm reading a book by Robert Hart about his version of Forest Gardening. If I wasn't persistent, his language, which is flowered with all the new agey Gaia speak, could have prevented me from learning some interesting things. Friends will do that, sit through our parenthetical phrases and unique vocabulary waiting for our meaning to appear. That doesn't mean we shouldn't attempt to refine our speech. Maybe its time to reread your Strunk and White and aim for clear and concise.
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I can relate to that need for accuracy in communicating. And sometimes it seems that whilst I am very comfortable with language I am less comfortable with communication:p
I think it's a matter of learning to code switch a little more fluidly. Something which comes with practice and experience. As you rack up different experiences in different contexts and with different kinds of people, and as you get older and slightly less concerned with what you're projecting, as opposed to what you're communicating, it gets easier. |
Writing is made more clear by editing for brevity.
Einstein said "Things should be as simple as possible, but no simpler." He was talking about science education, but it applies here. |
Brevity is the soul of wit.
The Bard is right again. |
I dedicate this song to Ibram:
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Hemmingway and his drinking buddies would edit each others work, always looking for what was not essential and ELIMINATING it. Brutally. That's one way to do it. Write a full page essay, then work it down until you've got 1-2 paragraphs that convey the important points more clearly.
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FRESH EGGS FOR SALE.
Of course they are fresh: EGGS FOR SALE. Of course you're not giving them away: EGGS. Of course, they are not chickens . |
In not sure if you are using your posts here as an example, but I have always enjoyed reading whatever you write. Your posts are like little journeys and I have never worried about getting lost while reading them.
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On Flint's "trim it down" strategy, one useful exercise is to make a PhD student write their entire thesis as a haiku. Seventeen syllables, baby - what is the real core of what you're saying?
Sherlock Holmes liked telegrams for a similar reason. No-one waffles when they are paying by the word. |
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Definitely by word, although they tried by letter and even by syllable in the early days.
Aussies and some Brits will know of "Bodyline", a cricket strategy used by bastard pommies against the brilliant Bradman and his team, whereby the ball was bowled short and on the line of the body so it would bounce up and hit the batsman on the head. It was originally called "line of the body" bowling until a journalist was thrippence short when sending a telegram. He changed it to bodyline and then had to argue that it wasn't body line. History was made. |
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