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Originally posted by OnyxCougar
Being interrupted. Having my integrity questioned. Being called a liar. People who say they want help but when they are given solutions, ignore them all. (a la Sierra Mystic (whatever her name was), et al.)
Those are the big ones.
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Damn, you must be my sister in another life. Basically, those things stated above are the same things that can get me going from 0 to bitch in record time. However, I'm learning to not let those things get to me, as much, anymore. I used to rage against it all, but now, I just have a few moments, and then let it go. Especially the one about people wanting help but don't bother taking advice...that shit I just shrug off. I now make the offer for the help, and if they drag their feet about it, I say, "oh well". And life moves on. I can no longer stress out about others and what they are going to do...I have to think of me and trying to live as close to a stressfree life as possible (basically because of my failing health).
However...that doesn't mean that things don't push my buttons. Heh!