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I personally can't separate the two. For me, any perceived "skills" seem to be entirely based on my attraction in the first place. I mean, I've only ever been with one guy who was decidedly unskilled--as in, pain and discomfort for me and not one iota of enjoyment. All the others were pretty damn similar when it came right down to it--but my enjoyment of things fluctuated widely, based on my overall attraction to the person. Maybe it's just because I'm a chick and it's all mental for me anyway.
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