You need a lawyer. She needs to be forced to take psychological testing to see if the children need to be removed from her (lawyer can have judge order the testing but it costs to have it done.) I don't think joint-custody or joint-parenting arrangements can accomodate her move to TX. Also, are you sure she's not bluffing about her folks being ready to spend the $$$ for a custody battle? She is clearly not putting the children's welfare first. Talking trash about the children's father in front of them--what kind of asshole does that? Good luck, my friend. And get a lawyer.
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In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic.
"Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her.
—James Barrie
Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum
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