right, communication is something I'm actually fairly good at(altough maybe not in the typed form
).. we've discussed it. this was more wondering how far would people go to please their partner, I'll do damn near anything, the problem with this is.. she wants me to rape her, and where as YES it would me more of a role playing exersize, the problem being that what happens to the relationship dynamic after that? it's going to change (trust me on this one, I've had a little experiance in the matter.. dynamics.. not raping mind you) and change dramatically.. I'm not into the whole bsdm thing... sorry just not for me. (and the other problem is that as much as I would like to consider myself a fairly decent human being.. part of this 'fantasy' of hers really appeals to me.. so where does that leave me afterwards?..hmm this is more personal than I ever get.. must retreat! and do some more thinking)