[Griff]

This whole having or not having kids / relationships thing is pretty interesting. My decision to have kids was powered by biology but steered by reason. I've only met one woman with whom I want to have kids. She fills needs for me. Her warmth and character improve my decidedly moody nature every day. That said marriage is a risk, some folks are unwilling to change themselves in ways that strengthen bonds or put another way people get selfish and change themselves in ways that are destructive of the bonds. Some times people bullshit you with "we grew apart." That growing separate was based on small and big decisions over time. It may seem a natural growth looking back on it but decisions were made. gotta go to work later g