I might as well jump in. I had kids because my wife wanted to have kids and there was no way I was going to talk her out of it. I'm not sure I would have ever "been ready" but many guys never reach the "ready" stage.
Now that we have them, I couldn't imagine life without them but as far as the "why" goes, the true answer is because it wasn't up to me.
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