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Catwoman · 03-15-2005, 04:27 AM

I so want to believe you. But everwhere I see the opposite. I do not know of a single relationship that has gone 'uphill'. They all deteriorate (and this is not just from personal experience). They deteriorate because the second you commit you either feel trapped or consumed - ie you want to leave and be free or you become obsessed or 'part' of the other person so much that it consumes your identity and you lose yourself (hence the immense heartache when it ends - you literally don't know who you are anymore).

I'm not trying to be negative nor am I deeply scarred and reacting to past experience (I don't think). Just what I see.

03-15-2005, 04:27 AM	#48
Catwoman stalking a Tom Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: on the edge of the english channel Posts: 1,000	I so want to believe you. But everwhere I see the opposite. I do not know of a single relationship that has gone 'uphill'. They all deteriorate (and this is not just from personal experience). They deteriorate because the second you commit you either feel trapped or consumed - ie you want to leave and be free or you become obsessed or 'part' of the other person so much that it consumes your identity and you lose yourself (hence the immense heartache when it ends - you literally don't know who you are anymore). I'm not trying to be negative nor am I deeply scarred and reacting to past experience (I don't think). Just what I see. __________________ I've decided I'm not going to have a signature anymore.