[Catwoman]

Ok ok, here's the truth.

I cannot understand WHY he isn't into me. Now, before you all start shouting your heads off or leaving the thread in disgust, let me explain.

I am perfect for him in every way. Superficially (and lets not pretend this isn't important) I have the looks he likes best (without going into a Hustler-esque description), I'm sexy (his words) and I have staying power and I am genuine and won't mess him around (I don't think).

Less superficially, I like him for him, just as he is, unlike a lot of girls who fall for his looks or identity or just want his children.

Even less superficially, we can talk to each other like no one else, we have both said on many occasions that we are the ONLY person who understands and we don't want to lose that.

As well as this, when we have been close physically, I 'sense' or at least I feel a slightly deeper connection, it's probably all me but there's a little part of me telling me he feels it too, to a degree.

There's more, but I don't want to get too detailed.

Now my question and continual pursuance of this matter is related to love in general, I suppose. If he doesn't love me, and love exists, then it is not rational or related to preferable genes or biology, but in fact more elusive and much harder to define than 'oxytocin'.

If love doesn't exist, I have hit upon the best relationship I am ever likely to encounter and should shut the fuck up and enjoy it for what it is.