I love hearing about people who did it THEIR way. What matters is the commitment, not the show. Congrats!! On topic: sex any different now that it's 'official'
? I grew up going to church and getting bombarded with "sex before marriage was naughty, and getting pregnant was horrible messages". After I got married, I felt a little free-er or something, it's hard to explain. It did take me awhile though to feel completely relaxed...I think
that though was because I was always taught (again, in church I think) that those who died before you were watching over you. I really didn't need my dad (and everyone else...) watching me have sex. Every once in awhile I still get the heebie-jeebies over that one. I will NEVER tell my daughter that.