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People who know me know that I don't hold with none of that and have some ideas about marriage that are considered quite old fashioned ... so my opinion on such a matter is never in question ... "You do what you feel you need or want to do, I don't control your behavior, but you know where I'm coming from."
It wasn't your job or responsibility to fink to the husband ... and, had you done so, "friend" would have considered you catty. You tell, you violate her trust ... you don't tell, and now she thinks you're a turncoat.
Anything to avoid taking responsibility for herself.
It might be worth re-checking the definition of the word "friend" vs. "people you know well."
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