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Originally Posted by Queen of the Ryche
my ex used to throw things, punch holes in walls, storm out of the house, slam doors, yell, etc.
in my current relationship none of these things happen. we do disagree every now and then, but we talk about it, figure it out, apologize, and move on, all within minutes.
amazing how much easier and more enjoyable this method is.
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Yeah, I've been through the first kind of thing a couple of times; it's scary and stupid. There's also been the passive aggressive thing with a couple of others, no police involved that way, but still gawd awful.
Communications IS key, as is RESPECT. You can't just go off and say anything you like when you fight, especially something you will regret. It is selfish, and you can't take it back. It so awesome to be able to talk, figure out what went awry, understand each other, and remember why you love each other. My fiance & I had both ran the gamut of freaky to boring relationships before we met. Now, every day, I become more amazed at how caring, creative, intelligent and sexy my man is.