Just be honest with them and tell them that it was your understanding in the beginning that this was to be a temporary arrangement, and that you simply cannot take on responsibility for her cat. She needs to be the one deciding what to do, not you.
Making a person take responsibility for what they are truly responsible for is not cruelty.
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"To those of you who are wearing ties, I think my dad would appreciate it if you took them off." - Robert Moog
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