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Old 12-12-2005, 04:12 PM   #30
Undertoad
Radical Centrist
 
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Cottage of Prussia
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I tried counseling with my ex for a year and a half, and we remained married for 3 years after we started... all that trying to save the relationship was a massive waste of time and energy. Looking back it would have been way better for me if we had just ended it.

But everyone's situation is different and I know people who "worked hard" on their marriage and saved it.
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