Maybe you two should go to Paris for a week. May or may not fix things - and I wouldn't go with the expectation that it will be cathartic - but sometimes the house can get a little claustraphobic when the relationship is not going well.
Somehow, I just think you need to do something to shake things up a bit. If for nothing else, just to break the pattern.
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