...Moving right along...
This thread has real current meaning and value for me. I'll step in and invite your input.
Here and
here are a couple of posts that have gotten me to this point.
As to throwing lumps of cold iron at his video-game-playing head...(good one jinx)
I use **every** bit of parental/tutorial/bribing/cajoling/enticing skill I have to extract those questions, and meet with only ... marginal success.
I am a big fan of the Socratic method. I understand it's usefulness. I am less skilled at managing the carrot/stick balance. Homework wars are definitely wearing me out.