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yesman065 · 01-26-2006, 09:35 AM

Damn Patrick, you just keep hitting on things that soo relate to my current struggle as well. "Sometimes, two people are just wired so differently, there's no way to stay sufficiently connected to keep one or the other happy or secure." Thats how my YW and I are/were. I'm just trying to deal with this being alone all the time. Lookout I believe it will get better and since I've read your thread since the beginning, you have to do the same. I'm starting a new phase in my life at 41 and I realize already that I am very glad I didn't wait any longer. It takes a lot of time and effort. At least by starting now I have more of that time and you'll need it too. Focus on the future & your son and DO NOT LOOK BACK. You aren't the problem and your outlook IS the solution! Best to you & your son.

01-26-2006, 09:35 AM	#11
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	Damn Patrick, you just keep hitting on things that soo relate to my current struggle as well. "Sometimes, two people are just wired so differently, there's no way to stay sufficiently connected to keep one or the other happy or secure." Thats how my YW and I are/were. I'm just trying to deal with this being alone all the time. Lookout I believe it will get better and since I've read your thread since the beginning, you have to do the same. I'm starting a new phase in my life at 41 and I realize already that I am very glad I didn't wait any longer. It takes a lot of time and effort. At least by starting now I have more of that time and you'll need it too. Focus on the future & your son and DO NOT LOOK BACK. You aren't the problem and your outlook IS the solution! Best to you & your son.