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Originally Posted by slang
It does sound like you've got many interesting experiences and a lot of information to contribue and I look forward to having us all at the Cellar believe that you are indeed important for the friends you make here, your opinion and suggestions on a wide variety of topics.
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Well, you haven't been following my sporadic history here (no reason for you to). I do have some friends and acquantances here, I've been supportive and have gotten advice and support, on a very limited number of topics.
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Originally Posted by slang
Thanks for not overshadowing us all. There's no doubt that my personal cummulative life experience and financial success is of no significance.
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When did this become a contest? Besides, I'm sure by the time you are 50 you will have some significant items on your resume.
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Originally Posted by slang
but I meet people every day that try their damnest to try to show me how smart they are and how important they are not by what they mean to others but how they go on and on and on about how great they are in one way or another.
It gets old quick.
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That's kind of the point of my story. Instead of jumping in on every conversation, voicing my opinion on everything I hear, I put on my head phones and go back to coding.
It's hard for a company to integrate a new senior person. I've seen so many of them come in and on their first day imply to everyone that they're doing a bad job, and he's going to save our sorry asses.
At my new job, I always say people are making good decisions, and instead of making suggestions, I confirm the good suggestions that people offer.
Yet, I also must show expertise and enough leadership to get a F/T job there.