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Originally Posted by Beestie
Ok, time to take the gloves off. You can't hurt a guy by getting angry with him. Tell him its ok and that you understand. Then tell him that you are actually relieved that you won't have to continue faking it and wish him luck hooking up with someone that loves him even with a unit that "has trouble reaching the top button on a girl's elevator."
Yell, bitch, scream all you want. If you want to hit a guy where it hurts, then let him know that he never took you further than midfield and that while you were prepared to sacrifice certain things to be with him, you are actually relieved that now, you don't have to.
Cheaters are gutless, selfish people. Don't hate yourself. Don't hate anybody. Even careful, cautious people get hurt by selfish people. Better to give yourself and get hurt once in a while than to withdraw. People who love will be loved - minor roadblocks notwithstanding.
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ooh, of all the advice here, this one seems to me like it might be the best! because honey, hate and anger take a LOT of energy and emotion, and that is exactly what this guy does not deserve from you. he doesn't deserve
any feelings from you.