Worthless but freely cast advice:
Check that you are reacting solidly to your kids welfare and not to her sexual activity. If the kid is clueless for now, you should be ok. If you sense the kid is in the middle of weirdness and threatened, suggest, as the adult, without passion or detailed accusation, that you are uncomfortable with him visiting this friend and that he should he come and hang out with you or yours during those house visits and sporting matches. Dont accuse, or get emotional, just insist, its for your parenting comfort. Go on your parenting intinct. Oh, and let your attorney know the situation.
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