Oh, girl, dump the dude! Yeah, you love him because your heart hasn't gotten time to catch up with reality. Sure, men can have a roving eye, but its one thing to fantasize, and its another to drop the good thing you have in the here and now. This guy let go of a good thing for a chance on some non discriminate sex. Lose the loser, you'll come out ahead, beleive me. You have my deepest sympathies. Some of us on the Cellar have been thru this before. It never gets better - only worse.