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I suspect that cheating is rather like pornography . As the judge presiding over the Lady Chatterly's Lover case said ' I do not know how to define pornography , but I know what it is when I see it' .
This also shows how subjective this sort of judgement is . Lady Chatterly's Lover is no longer seen as a pornographic book by mainstream Westerners , but it would certainly be seen as morally outrageous by a mullah in Irak . Depends on you , your culture , the time in which you live , and the other person involved.
Personally , I promised my husband I would be faithful to him until the day I die . I have always been both emotionally and physically faithful to him . I do not think that the mind can be separated from the body . That is how I am , and am fortunate to love someone who believes the same . But , as I said , this is naturally and necessarily a very subjective viewpoint .
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