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dar512 · 08-28-2006, 02:14 PM

foot^3,

What matters is how you feel about it. If it bothers you, talk to her tonight. If you guys argue in a healthy way, you can say, "Honey, I felt very micromanaged by that list you left this morning. Do you really think I need reminding to take the stroller with me?"

Whereupon she can say, "I never intended for you to feel that way, I was just trying to help out." or she can say, "Well I do think you would forget your head if it wasn't screwed on tight. Do you think I overdid it?"

08-28-2006, 02:14 PM	#12
dar512 dar512 is now Pete Zicato Join Date: May 2003 Location: Chicago suburb Posts: 4,968	foot^3, What matters is how you feel about it. If it bothers you, talk to her tonight. If you guys argue in a healthy way, you can say, "Honey, I felt very micromanaged by that list you left this morning. Do you really think I need reminding to take the stroller with me?" Whereupon she can say, "I never intended for you to feel that way, I was just trying to help out." or she can say, "Well I do think you would forget your head if it wasn't screwed on tight. Do you think I overdid it?" __________________ "Against stupidity the gods themselves contend in vain." -- Friedrich Schiller