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Originally Posted by extemporaneous
...that's exactly what 'dudley' told me last night while we were making love he told me that i have no need to be scared, i am completely safe....
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Completely safe ... until he marries. And then what?
You have some life history there and no wonder you find it hard to settle, to trust, to believe that you deserve good things and happiness. I'm sorry but, comfortable as it is where you are just now (but, no WATER?!), Dudley does not seem to me to be "a good thing" - he is using you for a housekeeper and sex until he marries and can use his wife for the same thing. Just my 2 cents.
And you certainly do deserve to be happy, by the way ...