Sexual history doesn't matter? Who would marry a porn star?
Now I know the tough guys and smart mouths will jump on this topic to say something childish and ignorant, but after they get that off there flat chests and school boy snickering lets see some real digging here.
Would you marry and look at a porn star as a future wife and mother of your children?
My point is if you knew what a women’s sexual history is you would definitely consider it in judging them. That’s just being honest. You make your own compromises at that point.
A porn star example is just taking the issue to its extreme, yet is just as insightful to the question. You see, it’s not a difference in KIND, but in DEGREE! It’s about what you could know and what that knowledge would mean to you.
If a women’s sexual history means nothing yet you would never marry a porn star or see them as a prospect for having and raising YOUR children then it’s really a matter of honesty. Your honesty with yourself, and a women’s honesty with you about her life and the choices she has made.
Ignorance maybe bliss but people really don't change. As the old saying goes, the more things change the more things stay the same. What really changes is opportunities. When your young you have greater opportunities than when you get older.
Age is NOT an excuse.
It’s about character.
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