You ladies need a boyfriend who gets a kick out of it when guys flirt with you :p . You also need to trust the person you are involved with, or you probably shouldn't be with them.
If I ever suspect that my boyfriend is being less than honest about his ladyfriends or that he is cheating, I will walk away. Someone like that is not worth my time and energy.
On the other hand, it does help a great deal to hear comments like, 'oh she doesn't hold a candle to YOU, my love' rather than 'man she's hawt, I could see myself doing the horizontal tango with her'. Remarks like the latter are intended to keep you off balance and insecure. I have no use for someone who plays with my emotions like that.
Stormie
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