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Originally Posted by morethanpretty
Hmmm this is a hard one for me, I accidently make my boyfriend jealous all the time. I have a lot of guy friends. Perhaps it was an accident for him too...
I mention guys who hit on me, and the different things my guys say to me, to my boyfriend and its not to make him jealous or show that I have other options...I'm just telling him about my day, life, ect. There is really no reason to get jealous anyway, you either trust him around the opposite sex and if you don't you drop him. BTW he knows that the most wonderful thing anyone has ever said to me, after his "I love you", was when my HS friend Kyle told me,"You look gorgeous when you cry" I had had a bad day and that cheered me up.
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Funny that post-breakup all those "guy" friends become more than friends. If I've seen it once I've seen it a thousand times. Guy friends is code talk for "guy waiting" or "guy on call" like call waiting. Being jealous of a womens guy friends is reasonable and probably well founded and knowing the game is par for the course.
Most guys know this and are "guy friends" in waiting with other girls, waiting for that rebound action. Most guys try like women to keep every door open, lest they be left out of the loop.
What I have found rather strange though is womens outrage when men confront them about their guy friends and yet go balistic when she see him even talking to another girl. Its ok for girls to have unlimited guy friends but no way for men wanting the same count in women friends.