[morethanpretty]

So Elspode she isn't satisfied in bed? and thats why she wants someone else? Geeze, seems kinda odd to me, my b/f isn't the best (neither am I) but I could never really imagine myself having sex with someone else. Maybe its because sex to me is much much more then just the physical. We each try our best and if one thing or another isn't working we try something else. We research different things we could do. I've even thought about buying a toy for myself, haven't yet though (I watched Sex Talk with Sue Johnson and now I'm scarred). I'm sure you're experienced with all of the different kinds of methods, but I wouldn't give up if I were you. Especially since both of you are having doubts.
EDIT: I had a friend who bought a vibrator so that she could "show" her boyfriend what to do. Fortunatly I didn't have to hear the details, but it might be worth a try.