It all sounds like a game to me.
Sorry, I don't mean that as an insult, I really don't.
It is very foreign to me, I tend to remove myself from situations where all the cards are not on the table. I cannot offer any more than I have, other than I truly hope this works out for you. I believe you are a nice person and want your relationship to work.
I just think she is trying to get you to do it while flying blind. She needs to tell you exactly what she wants, expects and how you are supposed to give it to her.
IMO, she does not want to have sex with another man... she want you to react in a way that only she knows. Most likely something involving looking like a Cavalier swordsmen busting down a door, metaphorically.
|