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lumberjim · 11-05-2006, 11:09 PM

confidence is sexy. if you want to be 'impressive' in the bedroom, you'll fail at it. let go your internal eye. focus on your lover, do what YOU want to do. do not think about what your lover sees or thinks of you. respond to their actions, of course, but ultimately, you are there to please yourself. be honest with yourself about that. if you think you can satisfy a woman with some secret technique that you'll learn or discover one day, you're wrong. it's in your own intensity of desire.

that said, you CAN get better with a partner, of course. practice makes perfect.

11-05-2006, 11:09 PM	#2
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	confidence is sexy. if you want to be 'impressive' in the bedroom, you'll fail at it. let go your internal eye. focus on your lover, do what YOU want to do. do not think about what your lover sees or thinks of you. respond to their actions, of course, but ultimately, you are there to please yourself. be honest with yourself about that. if you think you can satisfy a woman with some secret technique that you'll learn or discover one day, you're wrong. it's in your own intensity of desire. that said, you CAN get better with a partner, of course. practice makes perfect. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan