Oh, ok. Thanks for straightening that out, Selene...and belated welcome to the Cellar.
Dysfunction is a strange animal. Had a stretch where the damn thing wouldn't cooperate the first time with
every new lover. Man, was that embarrassing, explaining in advance. But the ones that rose to the challenge, made it rise to the occasion. Also a stretch on anti-depressants was countered with Viagra. But enough about me.
You've gotten the work it out together advice, so lets get down to the nitty gritty. Elspode said he likes kissing....that's intimacy...and a start.
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Els ~ Buy a trunk full of toys, creams and props.
Several times a week, go to town on that pussy until it's owner sings like a high school nympho. I'm talking sonic queefs and a vertical grin. If your dick wants to join in, make it a three way, if not leave him out. Oh, and don't forget her other naughty bits get jealous, so include them in the orgy.
Selene ~ Make him stick to the pre & mutually agreed on, schedule.....no excuses. Don't fake any queefing or singing or grinning...make sure you're satisfied....make him sweat, make him groove.
Now after a month or so, add some reverse play dates in between, where the roles are reversed. Keep adding dates until every night is booked, except maybe Mondays during football season. Hey, ya gotta be reasonable.
AFTER the evenings festivities, you can analyze and discuss other aspects of life. You'll be surprised how quickly you'll come to agreement on them.
Now if you two can't get and stick with the program, I swear I'm coming out there and supervise.
