I am a woman, and I agree for the most part, too.
I hate games, and I don't think anyone should have to try to read my mind. I do not nag if I don't get the desired result because I was lax in expressing my wants.
I consider myself the anti-nag. There is a lot of talk in other threads about nice guys being dismissed or taken advantage of by women, but that road goes both ways.
There is a happy medium between constantly trying to pull your partner's teeth (so to speak) and namby-pambily going along with everything.
I have a deep-seated disrespect for anyone who plays games. It's so unnecessary. With all my faults, I am what I am, nothing more nothing less.
I like this thread for the chance to talk about the game players in all our lives.
Others?
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