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Ibby · 12-16-2006, 11:23 AM

Whoa, whoa, whoa, even though I'm NOT gay, I've got a girlfriend, I'm definitely bi. I like the menfolk. A lot. Now, I wouldnt ever do anything with one, but that is because I have a girlfriend who I am completely, utterly devoted to and will love forever. I am not straight, that's for certain.

The semi-point of the last post, if there was one at all, is that I feel gay, I identify as gay, and I dont feel like a guy, so I'm really confused, and not entirely satisfied just labeling myself as a bisexual dude. I think a more accurate description would be... a different definition of bisexual, bisexual as... identifying as, being part of, liking, and just plain associating as both sexes. Genderblind, thats it. I see sex as a useless distinction. The only problem is that people try to fit their stereotypes, which sucks. But to me, gender isnt of any real... well, not importance, but... I dont know, some word that's similar to importance... but its... its not a distinction i need. However, as a teen, I feel a need to label everything, including myself.

12-16-2006, 11:23 AM	#26
Ibby erika Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "the high up north" Posts: 6,127	Whoa, whoa, whoa, even though I'm NOT gay, I've got a girlfriend, I'm definitely bi. I like the menfolk. A lot. Now, I wouldnt ever do anything with one, but that is because I have a girlfriend who I am completely, utterly devoted to and will love forever. I am not straight, that's for certain. The semi-point of the last post, if there was one at all, is that I feel gay, I identify as gay, and I dont feel like a guy, so I'm really confused, and not entirely satisfied just labeling myself as a bisexual dude. I think a more accurate description would be... a different definition of bisexual, bisexual as... identifying as, being part of, liking, and just plain associating as both sexes. Genderblind, thats it. I see sex as a useless distinction. The only problem is that people try to fit their stereotypes, which sucks. But to me, gender isnt of any real... well, not importance, but... I dont know, some word that's similar to importance... but its... its not a distinction i need. However, as a teen, I feel a need to label everything, including myself. __________________ not really back, you didn't see me, i was never here shhhhhh Last edited by Ibby; 12-16-2006 at 11:47 AM.