From the outside it sounds to me like it's over mate. It's always hard to tell though because you can never give all the info on stuff like this online.
Sometimes the reason we hold onto someone isn't really associated with loving them. It's a bit the same as knowing it's time to move out of your parents place, but knowing at the same time, you're going to miss someone doing the washing and cooking etc.
In short, it's easier, even if a bit restricting to stay in the comfort zone.
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