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Originally Posted by Beestie
Abdication might be too strong a word but the point I am making is that you can't expect a kid to develop the self discipline to choose not to visit unsavory content if you screen it all out.
What is he going to do when he's 19, out on his own with his own computer and no daddy sitting on his head clubbing him each time he strays to the dark corner of the internet - or strip clubs - or whatever.
What are you teaching when you demonstrate zero trust in your kids?
And I'd be willing to bet $50.00 that your kids have probably figured out how to tunnel through your Great Wall of Purity. For every safeguard, there is a hack. Keyloggers, screen cap software, site monitoring software - all of it can be hacked. Wouldn't surprise me a bit if they got the software while at their friend's house (oops - security breach) and installed it on your home machine. Don't bother looking for it - it won't show up in task manager.
Distrust breeds subversion.
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Never said I ever screened it all out. Only that parents should know what is going on when their teens are on the web. I have never clubbed any of my kids. Although I wanted to once or twice.
My older kids are already out there doing what ever they do, that is their responsibility now. They will be responsible for their own actions.
I know computers much better than my kids so I doubt any of the later will happen.
But we digress from the topic.
Do parents have a
right to know what their kids are doing on the net when such access is only available in their homes???