I have to agree with Bill on the sex/adoption thing. I have known several families that have had the same situation. We have both had a bio child and adopted. For us adoption wasn't due to the fact that we couldn't get pregnant. Just a choice. We went into pregnancy very casually. If it happened it happened. If not, oh well. There are so many great kids out there who need good, loving homes.
This may be a little too serious for the sex thread. From what I read on the first umpteen pages, this is more about the raw stuff.