Jeboduuza -- I'm relatively new here myself, but here is one thing that I noticed very quickly: the most active posters (except for one or two) on this site generally have good spelling, proper grammar (including capitalization), and are good at expressing themselves. Using poor spelling or grammar in the Cellar is like moving to
Sandford and painting graffiti on the church wall.
All the people that I've encountered here are respectful, but you have to earn it.
Edit: I just noticed that I said "
All the people..." That might be a little optimistic.